My wife struggles past the 6in mark

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Hell, my wife, age 67, now struggles at the 3" mark. Thank God I'm only 6" long.

I'm sure I'm not the only "seasoned" citizen on this site but I believe that many of us experience sex with our partners as being more uncomfortable for them. Obviously, as women age they don't lubricate as they did in their younger years. In addition, some vaginal elasticity has been lost. I use my own saliva and we use several brands of lube to help make her more comfortable. Overall, she seems to prefer finger fucking and clit licking to full-on PIV sex.
 
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You have a beautiful cock. Same size here, although you look a little thicker. And I get the struggle as I’ve dealt with it for years. For what it’s worth and every encounter is different. I need to get her off at least 3x before I can go at it. And then slowly and gingerly. The orgasms seem to open her up and allow me to fit better. Orgasms. Foreplay. Patience. My wife did talk to her doctor about it and she said the same.
 

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What does that mean?
For a long time, at least in the US anyway, OB's right after delivery when she is still numb down there would add stitches to the vag to tighten it up and also make it less deep or tighter the deeper you go, thinking that if the husband is a normal 5 to 6 which most males are they are giving him back a vag like she had when they 1rst started doing it and not a possibly larger more stretched out possibly permanently stretched out version
 

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My wife has a dificult time taking my girth. That wasn't always the case but since menopause it's been a struggle. We use a lot of lube.
 

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I know my ex started having issue where I would hit something (and I’m not close to your length) that caused her pain. Turned out she had fibroids that had increased in size causing the issue. Your wife should see her OB.

As far as being stitched up tighter that happened on our second child. Now why that did make her tighter as long as we used lube and went slow on entry we never had issues.
 

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We actually do have the silicone donuts and they work great when we use them. If she's been drinking she tells me we don't need them and is usually regretting that decision the next few days
Good! Allows pelvic pressure with protection. Got a Honey like that—-‘don’t want them!”

Well, I’m putting them on, for starters—-you can take off if you want—-but get on top, if you do……

Another approach is getting part way in, in missionary—then having her cross her ankles and me straddling her legs, closely. Although, even with hands ‘pinioned’—-she has managed to buck loose and get her legs wrapped around me. Hey—I tried—-all bets—and control—-is now lost!
 
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I know my ex started having issue where I would hit something (and I’m not close to your length) that caused her pain. Turned out she had fibroids that had increased in size causing the issue. Your wife should see her OB.

As far as being stitched up tighter that happened on our second child. Now why that did make her tighter as long as we used lube and went slow on entry we never had issues.
I remember a few times my wife would say it hurt and it felt like I was hitting something if I went all the way in. It resolved over time and she begs for me to go deep now. Not sure what was happening and she didn’t get it checked out before it stopped happening. But it felt like I was hitting a wall. Thankfully that doesn’t happen now.