My wife won't talk about big dicked lovers...

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  1. tenuousjam

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    My wife has, over the years, revealed that her former husband and several former lovers who were all large men, had very large cocks, including a long-time friend who apparently has the biggest cock of all even though he is a little guy - he is, apparently, extremely thick and when we were separated, he fucked her with that huge dick. Now, I'm bi-curious and the thought of her with all those huge cocks, including the friend (when I'm with him, it's all I can think about) drives me wild.

    I fantasize about inviting a guy over with a large cock and her 'teasing' him with her very large, gorgeous breasts and noticing him getting hard and then offering to 'relieve' him while I watched. I love that fantasy, but she'll not have any part of it :-(

    She won't talk about it because "it's personal." Is this fair? How can I get this need met to talk about her sucking and fucking big cocks?
     
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    tell ur wife to watch me at cam
     
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    maybe she doesnt want to be in a cuckhold situation, you think?
     
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    Obviously, she really enjoyed having sex with this guy. Sounds like she may have ven gotten a little worked up while telling you about it. Women give more when they feel appreciated. Be really nice to her, but don't make it that obvious. Next, invite the guy and his girlfriend of his out with the two of you. Go somewhere FUUUN, that serves drinks. Think, FUN FUN FUN/FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT! It's important to invite another woman so your wife won't feel cornered by two men. Then, have a few drinks-no several, continue being nice to her, flirt a little and hopefully you all will end up in a cab on the way to your home.
     
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    BUDDY...if you want to keep the wife...let it go...women are wired different...most i have talked w/about your situation are totally not into such behavior...keep it in fantasy....sorry man...dang it...
     
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    If she is going to be talking about another man then she may as well be fucking another man, living with another man, married to another man.

    As my friend Cesar would say, you need to start living in the now. Ex-lovers is the past, hoping that men will come to your house and service your wife is the future. Both are unhealthy.

    If you are not happy with the "now" (being married to a woman with "gorgeous" tits) then perhaps something in your current situation needs to change or be divorced?
     
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    Did she know that you were bicurious before you married? Maybe she is not so wild about that part of the fantasy?
     
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    don't force her, will only add a biter taste on your marriage

    Can't you do it with other couples without her knowledge?
     
  9. DiscoBoy

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    If he's going to do that, he might as well just leave her. Infidelity is never cool. As someone stated before, if you're not currently satisfied with what you have, then I think it's time you reevaluate your marriage.
     
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    The only way I've seen it work is swapping in a group scene - it could be only one other couple. She has to be turned onto and desirous of the other guy with very little prompting. An experience I had involved my then gf of 1 year, inviting her friend over to her house, she also knew the guy I invited. We went out, got kinda drunk, and things progressed from there. Without mutual attraction and desire all the way around it wouldn't have happened.
     
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    This is the stupidest suggestion ever. You're telling him to be unfaithful to someone he obviously cares about. You're very immature.
    Thank you for this mature response. And I agree, if you can't live with what you've got, change it.
     
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    I love this - only on this site do you find threads like, "My wife won't talk about big dick" instead of, "my wife won't STOP talking about big dick." Gotta love it.

    As for advice : If she doesn't want to acknowledge/accept your bisexual tendencies, the relationship probably won't last. You can't change who you are, and you can't deny your sexual urges forever... something has to give.
     
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    There's always the chance your wife is making this shit up for some reason.

    If it's so damned "personal" why did she tell you about it all, and in detail, in the first place?
     
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    It's fair because it's her life, her past, and her decision on whether or not she tells you. I have a hard time believe that it's a "need" on your part. It isn't key to your survival. Try being a good husband and respect her decision not to discuss it.
     
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    Maybe she doesn't want to talk about her past partners, hook ups/1 night stands, ex husband, or ex boyfriends? Don't pressure her, it sounds like she'll just get mad at you and it will lots of drama and a big fight. Does she know that you're bisexual?

    Not everyone enjoys talking about their ex's, or even wants to do it, and most people have the idea that the past should stay in the past when it comes to sex and relationships.

    Nothing bugs me more than when I date a guy and on the 1st or 2nd date he starts talking about his ex boyfriends and/or girlfriends and won't stop talking about them and focus on the here and now.:rolleyes:

    Now if someone who I've been in a relationship with for awhile asks I will tell them about ex's of mine, but I don't go into details like, "I dated this guy and his cock was 7x6 cut, and he had a longer cock than you do and a sexier body with a flat stomach too! God what a fox! He had dark hair which you don't have! He was so foxy and hung compared to you!"