Naked in front of son-in-law

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Football on Thursday. Will shower. Will keep the p.a. in. Will post on Friday and let you know what happens


It is good that you decided to keep things as they usually are. I think that is the best. I don't see why you would want to do anything out of the ordinary. Your daughter's boyfriend wants to get to know you. No big deal. If you make any changes to what you normally do, then he really isn't getting to know YOU. He would be getting to know a fake you, which is, apparently, not what he wants.
 

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Well, that went as well as I could have hoped.
The young lad made us all look like old fools on the football pitch, but was left feeling like a small child in the showers afterwards. I'm assuming he did look down and compare, while we all got clean, and the poor guy will probably have left with a complex(I assumed you are fully grown down there by the age of 18, perhaps I'm wrong). He did at one point look down at me, and hold the glance for longer than would have been polite. I'm assuming it was the p.a. that caught his eye). In the bar afterwards he asked me if my daughter knows i've got it in, to which I said 'no', and he said he wont mention it.
All in all, he's a pretty cool kid, happy to be naked in my company and he enjoys a game of football and a beer on a Thursday night.
And what's the worst that could happen? He tells my daughter I've got a p.a. Big fucking deal.
 

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This past weekend, my father-in-law was in town & we went to the gym. After our workout, we decided to hit the showers. We were chatting about college basketball and I took off my shirt and pulled off my pants. He stopped mid-sentence and I looked up in time to catch his wandering eyes bulge out and him mouth the word "damn." He just shook his head. He looked at me with this stunned face and chuckled. Being used to this kind of reaction, I passively laughed it off.

Although we are close and have a great relationship, his reaction made me feel slightly awkward, only because it was coming from my father-in-law. Thank God the naked awkwardness between us lasted only but a brief moment.
 
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Like LPSG84 said above. I had the same experience except it wasnt that uncomfortable. My father in law and i have seen each other nude before. We do alot of traveling and he has seen me wake up with a woody and totally flacidl. I am bigger than he is, but it doesnt seem to freak him out. We have a good family relationship.
 

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Likely not the reaction you watned, but this shit is hot as hell! lol.

Well, that went as well as I could have hoped.
The young lad made us all look like old fools on the football pitch, but was left feeling like a small child in the showers afterwards. I'm assuming he did look down and compare, while we all got clean, and the poor guy will probably have left with a complex(I assumed you are fully grown down there by the age of 18, perhaps I'm wrong). He did at one point look down at me, and hold the glance for longer than would have been polite. I'm assuming it was the p.a. that caught his eye). In the bar afterwards he asked me if my daughter knows i've got it in, to which I said 'no', and he said he wont mention it.
All in all, he's a pretty cool kid, happy to be naked in my company and he enjoys a game of football and a beer on a Thursday night.
And what's the worst that could happen? He tells my daughter I've got a p.a. Big fucking deal.
 

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Epic, seems like you did the right thing... except go to the body piercing parlour n the sex shop (for a pump) afterwards. You want your daughter to be happy right? At least teach the young lad how to gelk, n by football u mean futbol right? ; ) the beautiful game.
 

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Good to see that there's still somewhere in England where guys can shower together, naked and that's not an issue.

The lad probably hasn't grown up being used to nude showering so good of him to come along and join in - I suppose his youth would have been an advantage on the field but in the locker room your being with friends who you knew well would have returned the advantage to you.

Good on you for letting him see your piercing and your shaved bush - though at least with the shaving that is surely something he is used to - maybe he was himself shaved? Worth remembering that if you were in scandinavia neither or you would think twice about going for a sauna - naked of course - and if in germany your wife and daughter would be in the sauna with you again - I sometimes wonder how it feels for a german teenager being naked with the "in laws" for the first time ?
 

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It sounds like you both handled the situation the best way possible and it'll provide a good starting point to a hopefully long lasting relationship with each other.
 

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Worth remembering that if you were in scandinavia neither or you would think twice about going for a sauna - naked of course - and if in germany your wife and daughter would be in the sauna with you again - I sometimes wonder how it feels for a german teenager being naked with the "in laws" for the first time ?

Wow, like the whole family is completely naked and share a sauna together with no hang ups what so ever ? That sounds rather full on but I guess its true that when it comes to casual nudity a lot of countries in Europe seem rather blase and so what about the whole thing.
 
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Well, that went as well as I could have hoped.
The young lad made us all look like old fools on the football pitch, but was left feeling like a small child in the showers afterwards. I'm assuming he did look down and compare, while we all got clean, and the poor guy will probably have left with a complex(I assumed you are fully grown down there by the age of 18, perhaps I'm wrong). He did at one point look down at me, and hold the glance for longer than would have been polite. I'm assuming it was the p.a. that caught his eye). In the bar afterwards he asked me if my daughter knows i've got it in, to which I said 'no', and he said he wont mention it.
All in all, he's a pretty cool kid, happy to be naked in my company and he enjoys a game of football and a beer on a Thursday night.
And what's the worst that could happen? He tells my daughter I've got a p.a. Big fucking deal.

He may or may not have compared, he may or may not care about anything about your size. What I find sickest here is your sick fascination with his size and thinking this makes you somehow above him. Keep in mind you viewed him soft and size changes when blood starts pumping. I also doubt he was left 'feeling like a small child'. He strikes me a more a man than you as he undoubtedly knows what size he is and still had no problem undressing in the showers where you think that being big is the answer to everything.