I belong to a few gyms. One is a hole in the wall with weights, a few machines, and a steam room. It is bare bones (No carpeting). It is men only but I think a woman could go there if she wished. I'd say it is mostly singles guys 20s & 30s. We spot each other, we talk in the showers, we talk in the steam room and we even talk pissing in the trough. I'm not saying it is a gabfest but we look each other in the eye and at times we make small talk. As crummy as the building is, it is very comfortable.
I also go to LA Fitness and I have to say it is so different. No one really makes eye contact with you in the showers or locker room. My buddy and I played some racquetball and were walking and talking as we walked into the locker room, and it was so silent in there with so many guys facing the lockers we just stopped talking and stripped and showered almost in silence.
When I'm alone at the LA Fitness gym or my crappy old gym I walk into the steamroom naked and sit alone in the corner. In LA fitness they guys are usually covered and it is total silence. In my other gym it is quiet but everyone is naked and a bit of friendly small talk is made.
I know this topic has been hit on before, but I just seem to continue to feel frustrated with the silence of naked men and their modesty. It is so odd to go from one gym to the other. Guys walk around and stand and talk naked at my one gym and I find it very relaxing and freeing. At my other gym, it is hold that towel around your waist and get those baggy old boxers on then relase the towel. I met one old guy in the steam room and we talked politics. We took our converstation to the open shower area (It's small vs. the closed shower area at LA Fitness) and we talked as we showered and got dressed. I even shook his had when i left. Was he gay? WHo knows. I just like talking as men.
I continue to fight to instill a great difference between nudity & sex with my athletes. I feel I am losing the battle.
Jake
I also go to LA Fitness and I have to say it is so different. No one really makes eye contact with you in the showers or locker room. My buddy and I played some racquetball and were walking and talking as we walked into the locker room, and it was so silent in there with so many guys facing the lockers we just stopped talking and stripped and showered almost in silence.
When I'm alone at the LA Fitness gym or my crappy old gym I walk into the steamroom naked and sit alone in the corner. In LA fitness they guys are usually covered and it is total silence. In my other gym it is quiet but everyone is naked and a bit of friendly small talk is made.
I know this topic has been hit on before, but I just seem to continue to feel frustrated with the silence of naked men and their modesty. It is so odd to go from one gym to the other. Guys walk around and stand and talk naked at my one gym and I find it very relaxing and freeing. At my other gym, it is hold that towel around your waist and get those baggy old boxers on then relase the towel. I met one old guy in the steam room and we talked politics. We took our converstation to the open shower area (It's small vs. the closed shower area at LA Fitness) and we talked as we showered and got dressed. I even shook his had when i left. Was he gay? WHo knows. I just like talking as men.
I continue to fight to instill a great difference between nudity & sex with my athletes. I feel I am losing the battle.
Jake