have you ever seen a work colleague's junk in a non-romantic setting?... or your boss's? Or he/she seen yours? what were the circumstances, and did it have an affect on your professional relationship?
Naked work colleagues or boss
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Yeah I have..although I have to admit they have seen mine more then me theirs...or i see theirs after they realize im not that shy and all that. I travel a lot for work and although we usually get our own rooms and all..sometimes we will share a room on short trips or if we decide to stay longer to sightsee...have had the opp to room with a bunch of our intern or recent grad employees...Its always cool and never sketchy..but I do sort of set the stage early by being cool with undressing, being in underwear, walking to shower naked etc etc. Its been cool I have to admit..not unlike if you are with your buddies and all that.. a lot of times it has led me to seeing them in the same way...very cool stuff lol. A recent trip a few months back I roomed for three nights with this guy who was 23 pt guy we needed to help out on a meeting thing.. the first day i could tell he was shy and didn't know what to do, changed in the bathroom etc etc..by the third day. im guessing because I wasnt that shy in regards to changing, being in my boxers, dropping my towel in the room after a shower etc... he was always either in boxer briefs, or a towel...and he even was shaving totally bareassed while I was showering. Its all cool and Id never do anything with a coworker for a million reasons...but its is pretty hot sometimes...
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A few years back I went to an out of state conference with a male co-worker who was my direct subordinate. He asked me to ask my boss if we could have separate hotel rooms, which I knew would be a budget breaker- so alternatively I let my assistant make our hotel arrangements at an Embassy Suites where there is a second television and a fold-out couch in the front room. He was a newlywed at the time, as well as overweight, and I guess he was feeling too aware of himself and his sexual boundaries.
Interestingly enough, about 5 years later he had been promoted to the same level as me, and was working at a different location. Same annual conference, and our location was under a severe budget cut- but he VOLUNTEERED to have me bunk in with him in his 2 bed hotel room so that I could attend. It was a total turn around to his prior demeanor- I just purposefully was a bit more 'respectful' (aka covered or out of the room) more than our prior trip, since it was 'his room.'
Interestingly enough, about 5 years later he had been promoted to the same level as me, and was working at a different location. Same annual conference, and our location was under a severe budget cut- but he VOLUNTEERED to have me bunk in with him in his 2 bed hotel room so that I could attend. It was a total turn around to his prior demeanor- I just purposefully was a bit more 'respectful' (aka covered or out of the room) more than our prior trip, since it was 'his room.'
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Ithink i have written briefly in this before but yeah. Work at a large bank in HQ building. Sweet gym there and its free. Been bqre assed in locker w my direct boss and peers and juniors. No big deal. Some men are cool with it, others not so much. I have been a gym rat since i was 16 so i just dont care anymore. Let it hang. Used to be shy cuz im uncut and have some serious lowhangers. Now, kinda proud. Let em look or not. Was cool to see my boss ... Older guy ..... Wears a jockstrap as i do too.
The corporate gym is the most likely venue for those sightings I guess.
I've seen at least 1 boss. I didn't expect him to squirm, act awkwardly and hide in a corner and he didn't. He is secure and in a loving marriage and neither feels the need to hide nor the need to invade others' personal space.
Funny, it seems to be a pattern: most of the guys who have a steady girl (married or not) AND know that everyone knows about it are cool with casual nudity. It's the ones that don't officially get laid who act the most awkwardly in that setting.
I've seen at least 1 boss. I didn't expect him to squirm, act awkwardly and hide in a corner and he didn't. He is secure and in a loving marriage and neither feels the need to hide nor the need to invade others' personal space.
Funny, it seems to be a pattern: most of the guys who have a steady girl (married or not) AND know that everyone knows about it are cool with casual nudity. It's the ones that don't officially get laid who act the most awkwardly in that setting.
I used to work for a company that required employeed to share a room at our national meetings - usually once a quarter. Most roomies I hardly knew. Many of them saw me in/ out of the shower and vice versa. Others were more modest - it never seemed to be a big deal. - we quickly figured out how to get along and be respectful of each others modesty. I will say that the ones who were more casual and comfortable became closer friends. (Nothing sexual- just male bonding)
...although I have to admit that when the two extreme behaviors are on display side-by-side, it can be somewhat entertaining, if puzzling:
Co-worker A: A true giant. Very big and very tall. Not attractive or in good shape but you would have to be completely out of your mind to mess with a man of his stature...and he should know that by now (mid-thirties)...
yet he towel-dances...and very awkwardly at that, since he is much bigger than the towel maximum capacity...
Co-worker B is a much younger (mid-twenties) Asian-American nerd. Very lean and fit, but also much slighter...
yet he not only has zero problem changing, but no problem taking his time doing so, drying off all the way rather than rushing the affair.
Once again, it's all in the head (no, not the dickhead).
Co-worker A: A true giant. Very big and very tall. Not attractive or in good shape but you would have to be completely out of your mind to mess with a man of his stature...and he should know that by now (mid-thirties)...
yet he towel-dances...and very awkwardly at that, since he is much bigger than the towel maximum capacity...
Co-worker B is a much younger (mid-twenties) Asian-American nerd. Very lean and fit, but also much slighter...
yet he not only has zero problem changing, but no problem taking his time doing so, drying off all the way rather than rushing the affair.
Once again, it's all in the head (no, not the dickhead).
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I've seen co-workers and executives in the company gym locker room, and it was basically cool. A buddy, after seeing the company CEO in the locker room one day, used to joke that clearly either of us were more qualified to be CEO than he was--judging from cock size, of course. One of my favorited "inside joke" experiences.
Yes, but our CEO can afford an entire division of celebrity personal jelqers and increase his qualification over time. :biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1:
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I keep my personal and work lives as separate as possible. I used to use the corporate gym and saw co-workers in the locker room and showers. It was never a big deal for me to be nude in front of others, but I do notice some people aren't and they do the "towel dance" or shifting to maintain more modesty.
After about a month, I decided that this just isn't the sort of interaction I wanted with colleagues. Besides in London, there has been a few contested legal cases involving improper activity at corporate gyms. Work can be a very political and often psycho place, and I don't want a casual glance to be misconstrued as "cruising" by some homophobe at worst. Or be involved in casual conversations about people's junk like the quote below. Nothing good can come from that in terms of one's career.
So it falls into a "don't shit on your doorstep" kind of thing for me. I'm probably being overly-cautious, but why take chances with any aspect of my livelihood? I gym near where I live now where I never see a co-worker.
After about a month, I decided that this just isn't the sort of interaction I wanted with colleagues. Besides in London, there has been a few contested legal cases involving improper activity at corporate gyms. Work can be a very political and often psycho place, and I don't want a casual glance to be misconstrued as "cruising" by some homophobe at worst. Or be involved in casual conversations about people's junk like the quote below. Nothing good can come from that in terms of one's career.
So it falls into a "don't shit on your doorstep" kind of thing for me. I'm probably being overly-cautious, but why take chances with any aspect of my livelihood? I gym near where I live now where I never see a co-worker.
When I was seriously gymming a couple of years ago, I once saw the Boss strip and walk to the showers. To be honest, he's so butt ugly, I looked the other way, and I'm sooo glad I never saw him! Lol.
Another guy showered with the door open: I'm sure for my benefit. But again, ugly as shit and I just don't want to know it.
Would I feel comfortable for them to see me nude? Meh, I could care less. But yeah as for them, so ugly...I'm glad I haven't.
Another guy showered with the door open: I'm sure for my benefit. But again, ugly as shit and I just don't want to know it.
Would I feel comfortable for them to see me nude? Meh, I could care less. But yeah as for them, so ugly...I'm glad I haven't.
When I was seriously gymming a couple of years ago, I once saw the Boss strip and walk to the showers. To be honest, he's so butt ugly, I looked the other way, and I'm sooo glad I never saw him! Lol.
Another guy showered with the door open: I'm sure for my benefit. But again, ugly as shit and I just don't want to know it.
Would I feel comfortable for them to see me nude? Meh, I could care less. But yeah as for them, so ugly...I'm glad I haven't.
Another guy showered with the door open: I'm sure for my benefit. But again, ugly as shit and I just don't want to know it.
Would I feel comfortable for them to see me nude? Meh, I could care less. But yeah as for them, so ugly...I'm glad I haven't.
Ugh, I've seen the CEO of a major Redmond-based software company naked in the Jacuzzi. It was not pretty.
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I've seen some colleagues cocks plenty of times, when we shower after sports at lunchbreak.
No one gives a fuck. So there is no reason at all to change the way you behave with a guy just because you saw his dick and he saw yours. Bosses also have cocks, so it's the same really.
In a non sexual setting, nudity is really no big deal.
Like Brad Pitt said when asked about the pic of his cock on the web
"I am a man, I have a penis. Get over it".
No one gives a fuck. So there is no reason at all to change the way you behave with a guy just because you saw his dick and he saw yours. Bosses also have cocks, so it's the same really.
In a non sexual setting, nudity is really no big deal.
Like Brad Pitt said when asked about the pic of his cock on the web
"I am a man, I have a penis. Get over it".
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I'd really rather not see work colleagues naked, male or female. I was at an offsite work retreat a number of years back at a resort that had a spa. I happened to find myself in the locker room at the same time as my boss, and I studiously avoided seeing him naked, even though he was good looking. Just felt too weird.
That said, when I first started working, I had a very close buddy at work and we used to work out at the gym together. We saw each other naked all the time, and I think it brought us closer together in the way that being naked with someone can break down barriers. I also met my wife at work, and getting naked together definitely brought us closer together. :wink2:
That said, when I first started working, I had a very close buddy at work and we used to work out at the gym together. We saw each other naked all the time, and I think it brought us closer together in the way that being naked with someone can break down barriers. I also met my wife at work, and getting naked together definitely brought us closer together. :wink2:
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on a business trip to one of our field offices i spent the day in a whole day workshop with the division head, married fit guy in his 40s, with all the coffee intake we ended up using the urinals together about 4 times that day while carrying on a conversation, so he was right next to me. he must have been proud of his big tool, as he did anything but hiding it. LOL was it a big deal? no not at all, he must have seen my dick as well, and things did not turn akward at all.
I was naked around one boss and he was naked too but it was before i worked for him. As a lifeguard I have been nude around other guards when in the showers after work. Not a big deal.
There are few guys who go to the gym after work and some of them get changed in their offices or in the men's room before heading out. Once caught one of the partners getting changed, just stepping out of his boxers and about to put on a jock.
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