I don't know why someone has to take breeder is an insult, more humorous, just recognises that straight people have a usefull purpose in society. Propagating the species, like drones in a beehive. Jumping on someone for using it is a bit unreasonable.
I use it sometimes with my HS BF, his wife likes having babies, she's had seven.
My mother thought the purpose of gay people was to look after their parents in their old age. I think we should get extra credit, like tax breaks, for not contributing to over population. I'm glad to identify as a 'non-breeder'. The way things are set up in this society, we do subsidize breeders. (actually, gay people have kids at only a slightly lower rate than straight people) If we don't have the same rights as straight people, we shouldn't have to pay taxes at the same rate. Maybe we should be rated at 3/5 of a straight person, like blacks were counted in the south before the civil war.
The Alaskan equivalent of haole is 'cheechako', means 'walkaway' in athabaskan, white people wandered off before being given brains.