narcism & huge cocks

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Id much rather a small cock on a nice, caring, giving guy than a big cock on a huge dick any day..

And by the sound of it you had a cock on a dick.. Get rid of the guy and find a man who knows he is big and wants to put it to good us but dosent need constant stroking of his ego more than he does his cock :smile:
 

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My theory is that this guy is USED to having his cock worshipped---many good looking guys with big dicks, get attention and fawning early and often in life, and it becomes a necessary part of their sexuality--they REQUIRe the worship to get off. It is sad, but I have seen it happen before. Just my guess as to why he was such a self absorned prick.
 

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OmahaBeef said:
After acting like an asshole, you still gave it up. Apparently it wasn't quite that bad.

They were already in bed together. What was she going to do, get up and walk away? Frankly, that can be a frightening propsect for a woman, because of the fear of his possible retalliation. And even if that isn't her first concern, unlike men, women don't tend to just STOP all things sexual and refuse to go on. She gave him a try. The benefit of the doubt.


Your on LPSG, complaining about well-hung narcissists. This is precisely what many members are including myself.

And that's a good thing????

Men do appreciate compliments. Women REQUIRE them. Women spent more money on cosmetics in 2006 than what was spent fighting world hunger in the same year.

World hunger????? Please, dude. A better use would be "...than what Bush spent on the War in Iraq." Compliments is one thing, but to go on and on, and expect such an obnoxious stroke....he was an ass. I had a bootycall for a couple of years and when we'd get together after longer periods of time (he traveled back and forth to Boston for work), he might say something during sex like "did you miss this big cock?" HELL YES I MISSED THAT COCK! LOL It wasn't obnoxious or selfish or narcissistic. But if he had gone on and on I would have had a laughing fit. Or just stopped seeing him.

Plus, all women should hold back on too many compliments with the men. Men need something to work for, like dogs. :tongue:
 

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davidjh7 said:
My theory is that this guy is USED to having his cock worshipped---many good looking guys with big dicks, get attention and fawning early and often in life, and it becomes a necessary part of their sexuality--they REQUIRe the worship to get off. It is sad, but I have seen it happen before. Just my guess as to why he was such a self absorned prick.

I agree with this assessment. Further, women tend to be such lamely ego-stroking idiots that dudes will come to expect this from ALL chicks.
 

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My ex roomie was like that all pure Italian. He luved to jack off looking in the mirror and comment on his cock while doing so. But he was young stupid albeit HUGE. He was always bragging in public as well.
 

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basket boy said:
My ex roomie was like that all pure Italian. He luved to jack off looking in the mirror and comment on his cock while doing so. But he was young stupid albeit HUGE. He was always bragging in public as well.

Italian men are the worse. I DON'T WANT TO HEAR ANY BITCHING ABOUT DISCRMINATION COS I AM 100% ITALIAN. I refuse to date Italian men. They advertise themselves, as if it's some gift from God that made them Italian. Jerks. Plus, all of that Italian Stallion crap....UGH, CHEESY!
 

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This is an ironic thread to post on a website specifically designed for people who are narcacistic about their penis size.
 

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Well, the only huge guy that i have the pleasure to have in my life is not narciscistic at all he is just a nice balanced guy .

I'm more narcisistic than him and do not have a penis...:rolleyes:

Well, but for sure it makes sense the combination of huge cock & narcisim to some ...but that are other combinations too that do not envolve the privates.
 

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kimwinter said:
i wonder if there's a connection between narcism and huge cocks? came to these thoughts throught an experience.

I had about 30 men in my life, mostly all very average, propably 5-6 inches (never measured ii thought). the biggest cock was 7.5 long and 6 girth, which i considered pretty big (and liked the size of it, so i wondered if i was a size queen...)

now i've met this guy, pretty face, nice body, found him very attractive. when we started kissing at his place, i could feel that his bulge was above average. no bad thing for me i thought. when he dropped his pants, it was clear that it was more than just above average.. he was laying on his back, and his semi hard cock was laying on his stomach going far beyond his navel. a very good looking cock, nice shape, nice colour, a little curve downward but apart from that a perfect penis. the only thing it was, yeah, not big but really huge.

the really bad thing about it was, when this guy dropped his pants, he totally changed: the only thing he was concerned with was his penis. he lay there on his back, stroking his cock, just starring at his huge member. he wasn't into getting a blowjob, he just starred at his cock, asking me things like: isn't it a perfect cock? have you ever seen such a big one? do you like my fat cock? and wanted to here my aw. he even asked me to measure it, which i finally did. ok, so know we know it: slightly longer than 10.5, and 7.25 girth. measuring his cock seemed to be the definitive turn-on for him, as it was the only moment his cock was really rock-hard. fucking with him (or better to get not even half of him into me) was shitty as well, me being afraid, no proper foreplay; he not looking at me but starring at his cock even while fucking didn't helped either.
he later told me that he didn't like blowjobs, because, and i couln't believe he said that in a kind of proud tone, you have to stroke such a large cock very hard to get it stiff, which also explained him being quite rude and ignorant while fucking.

ok, to make a long story short, this guy needs girls to worship his penis. but why should we. of course, you find such a huge one only once in, don't know, 1000 or 10000. but apart from being big, whats is it good for? blowjob- no fun for him, fucking, no fun for the girl, so perhaps the biggest deal he can get out of it is to get girls measuring it. sounds kind of sad to me. but hey, who am i to judge, he is proud of it and in love, so everything is fine. just wondered if that's quite typical. have somebody made similary experiences?

It's a shame I guess that his bedroom persona is so different from his public persona (which you admittedly found very attractive) as a result of this.

Omahabeef has a point IMHO. I think you've just got an insight into the public persona men interact with with in exceptionally attractive women . Being really visually exceptional is as rare as being really big in the dick. Except that a woman wears it all the time.

Such people get used to being fawned over it and tend expect such treatment.

No worries, I'm sure this guy will find somebody to worship his cock. Although statistically it may not be of the gender he had in mind. He'lll find a size queen to stroke his ego just like women will seek out a man to to tell them their ass doesn't look fat.

**I'm pretty shallow myself. If I found someone with 1 in 10000 physical hotness-attributes but this kind of needyness I would probably just feed their ego and use them for the sex.
 

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Bette said:
They were already in bed together. What was she going to do, get up and walk away? Frankly, that can be a frightening propsect for a woman, because of the fear of his possible retalliation. And even if that isn't her first concern, unlike men, women don't tend to just STOP all things sexual and refuse to go on. She gave him a try. The benefit of the doubt.

Very good insight there. The part about men stopping everything made me want to plead the Fifth. Hey I was young. Lol! Anyway, made sense to me.

I think everyone needs their ego stroked to a certain degree. Most men probably want women to "dig" the penises to some extent, especially at the beginning. Almost every woman I've been with has asked me how her vagina felt at one time. I think it's just a normal human response. That guy obviously took it overboard though. Guys like him probably perpetuate that unfair wrap that huge guys have. If only sex were that easy!
 

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sure, everybody needs a little ego-stroking, that's cool with me, we're all humans after all. and nice to see that most of the guys being narcisstic about their cock seems to be not self-centered, selfish or lousy lovers like that one i met.
but what i was interested in in the first place was a slightly different question. if you read posts from women in lpsg, even most female sizequeens are more into 7-8 than over 9 inches penises.
if i had breastsize j, and found out that even bigbreastlovers don't want more then f or g, i would think, damn, i'm unique having ones you don't find everyday, but hey, a little bit smaller wouldn't be that bad. with guys i guess it seems to be totally different: even if they have 11", they would like to have more, althought it's hard to find a girl being even really into the 11". aren't their guys aroung who would change the envy of their peers under the shower with a cock, that gets hard easily and woman can relate to?
 
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yeah kim, i know it's hard to believe for a woman, but we can be schizonephrenic like that. that's what i thought about a lot as well, being in the male, hung position. while being in my teens, i found out, that other guys will be starring at me with fascination in showerrooms, some even getting aroused by my package (and propably not all of them are gay). that made me feel good about myself, and made me falling in a narcistic love with my huge cock. the more recognition i got, the more i was seeking it, and the more it would make me horny. so, as often i could, i would try to get attention in public showers. to be honest i still do so, and it never fails, as i am nearly 12 inches and a real shower. starting to date i had to find out, that girls reacted quite different than i had expected, as i thought they would worship me like other men would, or propably even more. clearly being that big makes you the talk of the town among girls as well, but most are just curious to see it, like in a modern day freakshow, only a few willing to give you a handjob or perhaps a blowjob, but that would be rare. in my twenties, meeting older girls, it wouldn't be that frustrating, as more and more gave it a try, but only few come back for more... it can be frustrating, the hugeness makes sex quite complicated, and from this point of view, for having sex, my ideal cock would be at least about 4-5 inches shorter, and not more than 6 inches around (oppposed to 7.5). but despite that, it still makes me horny to show off my huge cock, and even seeing me - or better my cock - in the mirror makes me so horny, i have to masturbate. so as i said before, it's kind of schizophrenic...
 

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kimwinter said:
but what i was interested in in the first place was a slightly different question. if you read posts from women in lpsg, even most female sizequeens are more into 7-8 than over 9 inches penises.
if i had breastsize j, and found out that even bigbreastlovers don't want more then f or g, i would think, damn, i'm unique having ones you don't find everyday, but hey, a little bit smaller wouldn't be that bad. with guys i guess it seems to be totally different: even if they have 11", they would like to have more, althought it's hard to find a girl being even really into the 11". aren't their guys aroung who would change the envy of their peers under the shower with a cock, that gets hard easily and woman can relate to?

I think that you are right that general consensus is that 8 x 6 is roughly the preferred combination of size - enough to stretch at the start and not too big to restrict any desired activity. However there are many exceptions, both for larger and smaller length and girth or a combination - i.e. someone might be built for a 9 x 5 and someone else a 7 x 7.

From a mature guy's perspective, it's better to be the size that fits with your desired partner. In hindsight, whilst I have been impressed with myself for being too big for someone, I would now have preferred to have had the great sex that I have had with partners with whom I am size compatible.

A lot of the core discussions that are about support, cover the topic of guys being too big for their desired partner - that is a tough one.
 

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Oh man definitely a complete ass. I'm sure that with a 10.5 inch dick he has spent far to much time entering his own ass.
 

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What a fucking Prick....(no pun intended)....

I wouldn't give him the time of day after that.

Not all who own big ones are so self obssessed.....