Nasty suggestions for married couple

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  1. olp79

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    My wife and I are looking to spice up our sex life but we’re not necessarily ready to go full tilt and bring others into our bedroom. Nevertheless, we are a looking for ideas that are a little bit nastier than vanilla ideas like “discuss your sexual fantasy” or “take a shower together.” Here are a few things we came up with:

    1. watching porn together
    2. reading dirty stories
    3. discussing past sexual experiences
    4. visiting a sex shop
    5. having sex on a webcam with strangers
    6. visiting a strip club together
    7. playing naughty dice game with another couple
    8. go to a gloryhole

    Basically, we’re interested in pretty dirty stuff that still falls short of swinging.

    Does anyone have other suggestions?
     
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    Here's a few more to think about

    Sex in semi-public places
    Loud sex in a rent by the hour type motel
    Soft swinging- you have sex in same room with another couple but no swap
    Sexy dress up nights
    Sex club but no swapping
     
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    me and my lady watch porn together once a week or so. it's alot of fun
     
  4. olp79

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    Good ideas, thanks for posting! I'm particularly interested in a soft swap, though it would mean meeting the right people.

    Yeah, we like watching porn. The wife is particularly interested in DP's, which is funny b/c she won't let me anywhere near her ass, I'm too big. Unfortunately, it isn't quite as fun as it used to be, so we're interested in finding new adventures.

    Any more ideas?
     
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    Toys are a great way of creating variety while remaining monogamous; fetish exploration works well, too.
     
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    introduce toys that will spice things up and dress up
     
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    commit to her that wherever the road takes you both that you will continue to talk and invest in each other so that you don't grow apart or become sexually separated from each other.
     
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    Events like the Folsom Street Fair in San Francisco are good for ideas.
     
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    very detailed dirty text/phone messeges are always good, especially when either of you are somewhere that isnt too exciting. getting a nasty msg when youre at work, on the bus or even just out of the house somewhere is always a turn on and lets you know your partner is thinking about you and will keep you/them hot until you see each other again when you can get a chance to go at it.
     
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    take her shopping for something to make her feel pretty, and then grope her in the changing room- maybe in the view of the woman across the aisle...
     
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    Get out the digital camera and take sexy pictures of yourselves and each other.
     
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