Five months ago, I moved in with my older boyfriend. We have been open most of our time together, at his insistence. He's quite a bit older and takes meds that have suppressed his sex drive. He was never sexual with me enough anyway, and now that we live together, it's even less so. Plus, we are both tops, and he is not into kissing or sucking dick. Both are my top form of sexual expression.
We are still open, and he truly doesn't care if I have sex with someone else. He just doesn't want to know. The problem is, I work 12- hours a day, and he's always keeping tabs on my whereabouts. He's not controlling or anything, but he is always thinking about it. If I am out unexpectedly long, he texts me to see if I am ok.
I have had three hookups since we moved in. Two of them were so rushed, they weren't very satisfying. I find guys who would be good matches for me, but I never have the time to meet up because I don't want to explain why I was so late coming home from work or whatnot. I need more sex.
I am wondering if any other guys have a similar issue and how you navigate it.
We are still open, and he truly doesn't care if I have sex with someone else. He just doesn't want to know. The problem is, I work 12- hours a day, and he's always keeping tabs on my whereabouts. He's not controlling or anything, but he is always thinking about it. If I am out unexpectedly long, he texts me to see if I am ok.
I have had three hookups since we moved in. Two of them were so rushed, they weren't very satisfying. I find guys who would be good matches for me, but I never have the time to meet up because I don't want to explain why I was so late coming home from work or whatnot. I need more sex.
I am wondering if any other guys have a similar issue and how you navigate it.