need a real honest opinion about my gf

[SpiceFromIndia]

Women are good at lying ..Its as simple is that. End of story and I feel people do say the truth when they are drunk.

 

[helgaleena]

I am assuming you broke up with her because she said such a nasty thing. It still stings because it was nasty, and that is a sign that it is not true. Only things that make you feel better about yourself are allowed to be true. Even uncomfortable truths can be put in a way that does not 'sting'. Somebody who says things hurtfully is best avoided, and you are doing that. Whether it is truth is immaterial when it is a matter of feelings.

 

[jk476]

I am assuming you broke up with her because she said such a nasty thing. It still stings because it was nasty, and that is a sign that it is not true. Only things that make you feel better about yourself are allowed to be true. Even uncomfortable truths can be put in a way that does not 'sting'. Somebody who says things hurtfully is best avoided, and you are doing that. Whether it is truth is immaterial when it is a matter of feelings.

right but she quickly backed out of this statement and said that she didn't remember how big he was b/c she was really drunk when it happened but i just don't buy bullshit like that.

 

[D_Ezdras Dingledonger]

First off, size is in no way a guarantee for a female orgasm. Making her cum depends on so many factors - hitting the right spots, emotional connection, supplemental touching on her part, her overall level of arousal, and a bunch of other things which vary from woman to woman.

In any case, my guess is that size isn't a huge deal to her, but she did immediately pick up on the insecurity you have regarding your johnson and so leapt on the opportunity to put you down in the heat of the moment. That's why I never, ever make a comment about my own dick to a girl. I let her think what she wants about it, and I never let on that I've got self-doubt about it (mainly because I don't). But the point is, if someone knows it's a sore spot for you, you're more or less putting a target on your cock when it comes to future arguments. That's why I will always say whatever you've got, swing it with (quiet) pride.

As far as whether you should break up with her or not, that's your call. Lots of people say stupid things in the middle of a fight, and in fact, I'm inclined to think that if you dump her over the dick comment, you're just making yourself look even more hung-up about it. I would take some time away from her and think about it all properly. If you do decide to carry on with her, avoid dick-talk and remember to stay calm and focused during an argument, or else walk away from it before it turns truly nasty.

 

[StretchTheory]

Some tough love. I'll say it as respectfully as I can.

You need to get your head out of your ass. Sure, you're young; the testosterone is swimming through your veins; you don't know shit about life and you think the bullshit that you're stressing is important.

It IS important according to what your midbrain is telling you.

I'm here to tell you that you are living in the midst of an economic depression. This woman, and your stupid cock are taking your mind off of what should be of critical importance to you: Your commitment to your studies. Your relationship to this planet. What can you offer this world that some child your age in Vietnam or India can not do better? Hint: It better not be a fucking big cock because 100% of the mothers on this planet have the capability to take a cock bigger than any male ever to set foot on Earth can deliver.

You need to be thinking about your future and not eating cat food while in it -- because you blew your chance to maximize your potential to have a career.

Fuck her. Fuck you if you don't fuck her. I used to think with my dick like your dumb ass and doors were closed to me in my life because of it. I need you to become a serious person and to direct energy to your work in college.

You'll learn that even if this knuckle-headed woman loves your cock, she will quickly lose interest in it of you are a broke underachiever.

Build your ability to survive in a world that is seeking to reduce your standard of living to the least common denominator. I love this site, but if you are actually tripping on the size of your cock I mean this from the bottom of my heart: you're fucked up. Your cock is fine. Regardless of it's size. here's how I know that: You have no choice. Nothing can change your inheritance. That means that the task is not to please that shit-headed woman. The task is for you to define who YOU are and what is important to your self view. I pray that you see that the size of your cock, fuck, that even if you HAVE a cock, does not have a seat at the table in your internal dialog about your self view.

The purpose of this site should be heal the guys with big cocks who are egotistically warped, and to reassure the good men with angst about their size that that shit is a bunch of ignorant bullshit that has zero bearing on their ability to be beautiful people and lovers. Bitches (male and female) who need size should take their fat body, stretched, dogged out orifices to the men with big dicks. Given some of the downright sick ego-maniacal attitudes of the 7X9 crowd that I bear witness to, it would......how should I put it.....SERVE THEM RIGHT.

Dump her. You're an idiot if you believe the relationship is going anywhere. You may feel lonely and you may feel a need to maintain connection to her. That loneliness that you feel exactly equates to the following:

Your complete disengagement with people looking for young people to get involved with organizations trying to help make this a better world.

Your lack of devotion to your lucky ass ability to go to college and to focus on the wonderful opportunity that you have to blossom. Stop. Let me repeat that word. Blossom. To be sucked up into a realm of some of the work of the mind that can help to save humanity.

Do your work.

The real work. Your insecurity about a squeezer bitch will dissolve like a....

Wow bro... that was amazing. :clap: pure literature right there. (smirking and nodding head in agreement)

 

[Belly_Dancer]

So forget it and try to move on, your size has nothing to do with whether she can orgasm or not, some women orgasm easily, some can only do it for themselves and some have never been able to orgasm.

Very true.

Bitches (male and female) who need size should take their fat body, stretched, dogged out orifices to the men with big dicks.

Peterdetruse, a lot of your post was actually quite good, but implying that anyone who needs size is fat and has stretched and dogged out orifices is simply childish name-calling and has no basis in reality.

I'll also tell you that once you do the homework... being the best is easy! Because there are so many guys out there who buy into the macho bullshit that you're "less of a man if you need some book to tell you what to do". I had a few books and a very willing study buddy and that was about all I needed.

One of the best lovers I ever had had very little actual real life experience, but had read a lot of books. Yes, you can learn from books.

Women are good at lying ..Its as simple is that.

Fuck you very much.

I actually believe most people, men and women, are not good at lying.

Liars think everyone else is a liar too.

 

[helgaleena]

right but she quickly backed out of this statement and said that she didn't remember how big he was b/c she was really drunk when it happened but i just don't buy bullshit like that.

And what makes it bullshit is the hurting intent, not the content. Good for you to reject it.

 

[Tango0]

Let it go!
Don't keep bringing up the subject......................
Get over it and if you can't then move on
If you care for then this is all just silly

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Too True.
if you keep bringing it up you will just end up in another fight