Need advice about a family members man

[BigDallasDick8x6]

Fight fire with fire. Next time he does that (when she is there!) call his bluff. Tell him to take his clothes off "and let's go." When you turn the tables and you become the aggressor instead of the victim, the both of them will probably back down very quickly. Even if he wants to do something with you, he can't while she's there and I bet she'll get him back on a shorter leash pretty quick if she thinks someone might have sex with her man due to his flirting.

 

[Viking_UK]

I'd tell him where to go - in private - and if that doesn't work, tell him in front of your cousin that you want it to stop.

 

[hung]

Regret last a long time.

Steer clear of both of them.

I know a cousin is family, but you are certainly in control of when you see them.

Take the high road and get on with your life.

Enjoy the company of new friends/buddies you will meet in the future.

Merry Christmas.

 

[fatddyslam]

honestly you need to either tell him to fuck off or tell your cousin that her boyfriend is a piece of shit. i dont understand why people continue on relationships that are bound to fail. not to be offensive or a downer, but anyone who is wanting to cheat on their partner, and admits it outright, needs to break off the relationship. tell your cousin you dont think this guy is right for her, and tell her they need to break up otherwise ur not really going to be a part of their lives.

then be adventurous, and tell your guy friend to suck ur dick next time and see what he says. go far and make him uncomfortable...unless he really is a homo and wants to sslobber on ur dick.

 

[thadjock]

honestly you need to either tell him to fuck off or tell your cousin that her boyfriend is a piece of shit. .

there's alot of harsh reactions to this thread, maybe the dude has already confided a much deeper interest in guys to the female cousin, and she's just open to helping him explore that. some guys need to work with a net. what he's described so far seems relatively harmless.

at any rate playful bodily contact isn't assault, everybody in the US is so afraid to touch each other , immediate famly members don't even hug here, in my family we grew up with old school traditions of men kissing and embracing when greeting family members, and close friends, and younger males could walk around with arms over shoulders without the rabid homophobia the US has. even wrestling/grabbing crotch/ slapping ass/exposing ur junk or ass/and pinching nipples is considered normal adolescent/young adult play in my family. my brothers know no boundaries when it comes to engaging in outward physical affection (not sexual) for one another. sure it's primate like but fun.