Need advice about sex with the gf

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Here's my issue:

My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. When we met, she was a virgin and I...fixed...that for her. According to her, it was terribly painful. The sex is great, and she loves it, but she ALWAYS tells me that it hurts her, sometimes to the point where we have to stop.

I thought it was just because she hasn't had other dicks, but she says I stretch her a LOT. This isn't the first time this has happened, as a friend of mine said that I hurt her too.

I'm only 6 inches thick, and I'm a bit addicted to PE. I find myself jelqing a lot now. My question is, should I stop PE? Is there anything I can do to stop my girlfriend from hurting? This is ruining my self-confidence. I love her, and everything, but the sex is just too high-maintenance.
 

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Please stop PE. You're already big. If you get any bigger, you may elicit a few more looks in the locker room, but all you'll elicit from your girlfriend is more wincing.

And make sure you eat her out before sex. Her pussy will be far more accommodating if she's just had an orgasm. Believe me, it's the difference between night and day.
 

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RigidDreamer is correct in part of what he says, foreplay is absolutely crucial, if the pain is caused by 'stretching' it must be because she is too dry or not relaxed, otherwise there should be no pain from that aspect of intercourse, bearing in mind that the vagina is designed to stretch around something the size of a babies head!

Pain from sex with a big one in my experience is almost always associated with length, when the head is forced against the cervix, now that makes us wince, believe me!

So, to conclude, get down there and get her wet, she needs to be relaxed ad lubricated.
 

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Here's my issue:

My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. When we met, she was a virgin and I...fixed...that for her. According to her, it was terribly painful. The sex is great, and she loves it, but she ALWAYS tells me that it hurts her, sometimes to the point where we have to stop.

Same problem here: it took more than one year for my GF to get used to my cock (I am 6.75 around). In our case, lots of foreplay (licking & fingering) and liquid-based lube helped a lot.

If I were you I would definitely stop PEing, you clearly have more than enough to satisfy your girl!!!
 

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Here's the best advise I can give.

Stick your hand in her and feel around.

You'll be amazed how big her vagina isn't and make peace with her cervix.

Once you realize that you're longer than she is deep, your sex life will improve dramatically.
 
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Agree with most on the thread... get that camel toe and turn it into casserole
.definitely eat that and play with it til you have her begging to get the pipe. good luck.
 

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Here's my issue:

My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. When we met, she was a virgin and I...fixed...that for her. According to her, it was terribly painful. The sex is great, and she loves it, but she ALWAYS tells me that it hurts her, sometimes to the point where we have to stop.

I'm only 6 inches thick, and I'm a bit addicted to PE. I find myself jelqing a lot now. My question is, should I stop PE? Is there anything I can do to stop my girlfriend from hurting? This is ruining my self-confidence. I love her, and everything, but the sex is just too high-maintenance.

This is the key! at 6 inches thick you're thicker that 95%+ of the men in the entire world!!! You certainly don't need PE and/or jelqing! Especially if your girlfriend is having trouble with your current size!

You don't say if you are using condoms or not, or how much foreplay is involved before you try to penetrate her. Use lube!!! Lube is your friend!!!
I'm 7" by 6" and I've easily penetrated every single woman I've been with. Unless the woman was very wet, lube was used. Even when we didn't start with lube, using a condom, or just going long meant stopping and lubing up to continue sex.
 

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Get her more excited first...
you hurt her once, and now she is tense in anticipation of pain. So try and relax her.

Then, try alternate positions. From behind in a spooning position, for example, she has more control of depth and impact with her leg position.

Some positions you will find are not good... some only good for shallow and gentle action... Experimenting you will also find positions that are more comfortable for her in which you can be more forceful without hurting her and this will build her confidence in being able to Trust and Allow.

But what you and she are experiencing is the anxiety she feels because she is anticipating pain.

Don't even penetrate her until she has had several orgasms from manual or oral stimulation.


And forget about jelquing... its just a form of masturbating and its only effect on your size is the temporary swelling caused by tissue damage.

Stop thinking about YOUR dick, and start focusing on her pleasure, her body and her responses...
that, and paying more attention to your character and career will get you laid far more often than Anything to do with your dick.
 
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We don't use lube, but we do use condoms. Perhaps if we tried without the condom and use lube it would be better. She's on the pill, and we only really use a condom as an extra measure.

With condoms, I almost always had to use lube. Something about the latex caused greater friction that would make it uncomfortable for her after a few minutes, even if she was naturally very wet.

Use a silicon based lube like Wet, with the condom, and you should only have to apply it once, before insertion, and be good to go. I learned quickly that a little of the right lube applied before penetration meant no 'friction burn' and stopping in the middle to apply lube.

All the other advice about foreplay, and taking it slow at first still applies as well.