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That fastest way to risk a friendship and push someone away is to "press" them about the sexual orientation.

Honestly, it sounds to me like you have found a very good and accepting friend. My advice, rein in those urges and continue to be his best friend. Believe me, since he knows you are bi, if he ever wants to experiment or play, he'll let you know.
 

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That fastest way to risk a friendship and push someone away is to "press" them about the sexual orientation.

Honestly, it sounds to me like you have found a very good and accepting friend. My advice, rein in those urges and continue to be his best friend. Believe me, since he knows you are bi, if he ever wants to experiment or play, he'll let you know.

Touche.
 

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You also may still be best of friends because if he is straight, he admires the fact that you respect that and don't hit on him. Stay friends, be best of friends, whatever. As someone said above he already knows you like guys, so if he wants to experiment he already has a best friend that he knows would satisfy that curiousity. But keep respecting for now his being straight because he very well may be.
 

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Appreciate the feedback guys. If anything happens I'll be sure to post an update. ;)
 

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That fastest way to risk a friendship and push someone away is to "press" them about the sexual orientation.

Honestly, it sounds to me like you have found a very good and accepting friend. My advice, rein in those urges and continue to be his best friend. Believe me, since he knows you are bi, if he ever wants to experiment or play, he'll let you know.

When he asked the question, it was an opportunity to respond with...."what about you?"

Yes and yes.

OP, you have a fantastic chance to be a model for your friend what a great person a queer guy can be. If he's struggling with his sexuality, he'll always be able to look to you and think "it can be that great." If he's not, he'll be a great ally.

P.S. "pussy meat"??? Really? For real? Who says that? ;)