I have 2 dildo's for my fiancée they are both the life like dildo's. While the size is great on them they just do not completely satisfy her because she said it is hard to use them because they are flexible and more flimsy then a real hard on. She is looking for a dildo that has good size but it doesn't fall over if she holds it out. Something that may feel life like but stays hard and firm at the same time so it is easier to fuck her with it and for her to use. Anyone have any advice.