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hi everyone, i'm so glad i found this forum. i've been looking around for an answer to my question, but haven't found exactly what i'm looking for. so i'm hoping some of you can help me.
i'm a 24-year-old gay male, and for the past two months or so i've been dating a really fantastic guy -- smart, well-built (former college football player), has identified as bisexual for a few years. the good news (and the bad news) is that he has by far the biggest dick i've ever seen in real life... the closest comparison i've seen would probably be the porn star chad hunt, for those of you familiar with falcon studios. he let me measure one night and it was about 10.5" long and between 7.5-8" around -- i can't get my hand around it at any point along the shaft! plus, it gets completely rock hard and stays that way all night. i have to say, it is absolutely magnificent, and just thinking about it keeps me horny as f**k all day long.
the problem, as you might imagine, is that i'm having trouble putting it to good use. for starters, i can only fit the head and a couple inches in my mouth. and as far as intercourse, well, he's 26 and has dated half a dozen guys before me, and none of them has been able to take him anally at all.
now i'm a pretty big guy (6'3", 190lbs) and he was hoping i might have better luck. the problem is, up until now, i've been exclusively a top and never really had the desire to bottom before. that is, until i saw his dick, at which point i instinctively fell onto my back and wrapped my legs around the back of my neck
so, what i need from you guys is some step-by-step advice on how to prepare to take this guy to the hilt. we've tried intercourse twice, with me on top, and lots of good silicon lube (wet platinum), but i was only able to take the head and a couple inches beyond, and that involved some excruciating pain. after each try, my ass was sore for several days.
so, how should we proceed from here? should i just keep trying, with me on top, and see if i can take a little more each time? in that case, how long do you expect it would take for me to be able to take the whole thing? are there other positions that would work better? would it be helpful to get a smaller-sized dildo and practice with that first?
also, i'm getting more than a little worried that i could hurt myself doing this, like tear a muscle or an intestinal wall or something... is that possible, and how do i avoid it? how much pain is it normal to expect?
and can someone confirm that it will actually be pleasureable for me at some point, or is it possible that it will always be uncomfortable or painful? i will say there is something incredibly psychologically arousing about trying to cram his huge cock inside me, even though it's painful, but i do look forward to some actual physical pleasure at some point.
please, i would appreciate as much advice as you can give. besides being incredibly physically attracted to this guy, we've also formed a really strong emotional and intellectual bond already, maybe the strongest i've ever had. i would really like to be able to offer this to him; i think it would strengthen our relationship tremendously. thanks everyone!
luke
i'm a 24-year-old gay male, and for the past two months or so i've been dating a really fantastic guy -- smart, well-built (former college football player), has identified as bisexual for a few years. the good news (and the bad news) is that he has by far the biggest dick i've ever seen in real life... the closest comparison i've seen would probably be the porn star chad hunt, for those of you familiar with falcon studios. he let me measure one night and it was about 10.5" long and between 7.5-8" around -- i can't get my hand around it at any point along the shaft! plus, it gets completely rock hard and stays that way all night. i have to say, it is absolutely magnificent, and just thinking about it keeps me horny as f**k all day long.
the problem, as you might imagine, is that i'm having trouble putting it to good use. for starters, i can only fit the head and a couple inches in my mouth. and as far as intercourse, well, he's 26 and has dated half a dozen guys before me, and none of them has been able to take him anally at all.
now i'm a pretty big guy (6'3", 190lbs) and he was hoping i might have better luck. the problem is, up until now, i've been exclusively a top and never really had the desire to bottom before. that is, until i saw his dick, at which point i instinctively fell onto my back and wrapped my legs around the back of my neck
so, what i need from you guys is some step-by-step advice on how to prepare to take this guy to the hilt. we've tried intercourse twice, with me on top, and lots of good silicon lube (wet platinum), but i was only able to take the head and a couple inches beyond, and that involved some excruciating pain. after each try, my ass was sore for several days.
so, how should we proceed from here? should i just keep trying, with me on top, and see if i can take a little more each time? in that case, how long do you expect it would take for me to be able to take the whole thing? are there other positions that would work better? would it be helpful to get a smaller-sized dildo and practice with that first?
also, i'm getting more than a little worried that i could hurt myself doing this, like tear a muscle or an intestinal wall or something... is that possible, and how do i avoid it? how much pain is it normal to expect?
and can someone confirm that it will actually be pleasureable for me at some point, or is it possible that it will always be uncomfortable or painful? i will say there is something incredibly psychologically arousing about trying to cram his huge cock inside me, even though it's painful, but i do look forward to some actual physical pleasure at some point.
please, i would appreciate as much advice as you can give. besides being incredibly physically attracted to this guy, we've also formed a really strong emotional and intellectual bond already, maybe the strongest i've ever had. i would really like to be able to offer this to him; i think it would strengthen our relationship tremendously. thanks everyone!
luke