Need advice - fucking with a cock extension

[belmontracer]

So last weekend I fucked my wife with a Fat Jack Cock extension. Made me about 8x6. We tried missionary. She was able to take it all and kept making an uncontrollable gasp every time I pushed it in deep. Since she's normally pretty quiet, that was surprising. She also wrapped her legs around me at one point, which is uncommon. Pretty sure she enjoyed it, but didn't cum from what I could tell. Her feedback was that it felt good, but hurt.

Bought the Rhino Stampede, and plan on trying it out tomorrow night. Any tips on working a big dick that I can use to my advantage?

 

[hzs3fg]

It seems that your wife really didn't enjoy the event so why are you planning a replay?

 

[Exbiker]

Why are you being such a moaning bitch, hzs? He said he was pretty sure she DID enjoy it? Why assume she didn't?

I occasionally use one on my slaveboys, but generally my own cock is OK/preferable. It IS a slightly different experience for them though, and so long as they are relaxed, and you aren't TOO brutal with it ( ) then I think it's fine. I use the same positions with and without, and maybe just thrust slightly less aggressively, and make more of those moments when I just hold it at the same position, inside them.

And remember, practice makes perfect.

 

[Trott.lint]

So last weekend I fucked my wife with a Fat Jack Cock extension. Made me about 8x6. We tried missionary. She was able to take it all and kept making an uncontrollable gasp every time I pushed it in deep. Since she's normally pretty quiet, that was surprising. She also wrapped her legs around me at one point, which is uncommon. Pretty sure she enjoyed it, but didn't cum from what I could tell. Her feedback was that it felt good, but hurt.

Bought the Rhino Stampede, and plan on trying it out tomorrow night. Any tips on working a big dick that I can use to my advantage?

You're having far more luck than me. I have tried several, with no success, so I've given up. My partner's ex was 8x6 (I'm 5) & she says he was a very tight fit but gave her vaginal orgasms nearly every time - I haven't given her one vaginal orgasm in 15 years. When I use extenders, she says they're too big or too hard & she hates them. I've given up - ideally I need to find a really soft 8x6 but the extenders always seem to go beyond 6 inch girth & the material isn't super soft like cyberskin or jelly.

If anyone has any recommendations, I'd appreciate it.

 

[hzs3fg]

Why are you being such a moaning bitch, hzs? He said he was pretty sure she DID enjoy it? Why assume she didn't?

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My wife and I have done some kinky stuff over the years and I can say with certainty that I can tell the difference between "I think she liked it" and "I know she liked it."

From the OP's description I'd say that it is more likely that it wasn't good for her but she was trying hard to play along and support her husband's good intentions.

The way I see it, if you have to ask, then no, you shouldn't try it again.

 

[keenobserver]

My wife and I have done some kinky stuff over the years and I can say with certainty that I can tell the difference between "I think she liked it" and "I know she liked it."

From the OP's description I'd say that it is more likely that it wasn't good for her but she was trying hard to play along and support her husband's good intentions.

The way I see it, if you have to ask, then no, you shouldn't try it again.

I tend to agree but I think the solution is to ask. Maybe she liked the idea of it, but it fell short in reality. Maybe she liked some of it, but had pain issues that need to be addressed. It would seem like using an extension or a dildo would be like driving a truck for the first time after being used to a car. Some people might be great the first time, a few might have some curb or pothole issues.

Simply ask her, in a way that allows her to talk about it. "I rather enjoyed using the Freightliner last night, would you like to do it again? Would you like me to change it up in some way? Is there something you'd really like to try? What about it worked, what would you like to change?"

Sexuality is tricky for anyone to talk about, and performance issues are explosive. Still the op cares enough to want to improve - bravo for him, but he should ask her, not us.

 

[t9]

keep with the flesh to flesh , better that way.

 

[TONYLONG69]

I tried introducing my lady to extensions by starting small. First I tried the Ur3 Hard Throb 7" Realistic Ultra Skin sleeve. After a positive reaction I next went up to the Pipedream Products Fantasy X-tension Vibrating Real Feel, Black, 2 Inch. Once again a positive experience. The next step up was the Vixskin Colossus. It is the best material and real life looking and feeling. She absolutely loved it. I am next going to go bigger with the Tommy Gunn and if she can handle that, the Rhino by Traz.

 

[wezenjuus]

in the past month or so we've used
Tommy Gunn - good as always, trimmed 3/4"
Black Fat jack (Lebrawn) also trimmed 3/4" - kinda my fav -
the other night oxballs muscle without any warm up - she just took it - all of it, certainly her limit for length
I had it on already b4 we got in bed
then we took a 5 minute break and I slipped on perfect fit fat boy

last night we got extra freaky and were in on over the bed for a couple hours
after she came on my cock - I ate her to another O - slipped on the oxballs muscle
pounded her hard balls deep and she came again, let her recover
and then slipped my fatboy OVER the Muscle this is a 9x9 log
and once the head was in and she stretched to the massive size she started back up for more
she didn;t cum on that monster but loved every stroke
when it was my turn I took them both off and enjoyed the wet sloppy looseness
she reached and stroked my balls and I filled her up - wow

 

[Phil Ayesho]

You're having far more luck than me. I have tried several, with no success, so I've given up. My partner's ex was 8x6 (I'm 5) & she says he was a very tight fit but gave her vaginal orgasms nearly every time - I haven't given her one vaginal orgasm in 15 years. When I use extenders, she says they're too big or too hard & she hates them. I've given up - ideally I need to find a really soft 8x6 but the extenders always seem to go beyond 6 inch girth & the material isn't super soft like cyberskin or jelly.

If anyone has any recommendations, I'd appreciate it.

TSXtoys makes one that wraps around the base of your nuts to stay in place. Its 8" long, and a pretty ideal girth.

 

[Joleph]

This one is quite new and seems to tick all your boxes

 

[Joleph]

http://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=32919