Hi all -- I'm not that active on here, but briefly, I'm 30, married and we have an 18 month old beautiful daughter. My wife and I recently decided that we want to let grandma and grandpa babysit for a weekend night and invite a masseuse or masseur to come to our house to give us both a nude massage -- and to see what else might happen. It's a fantasy we both share, I think because we're both pretty tired these days with the toddler running around and we like the idea of someone taking care of US a little. So..... we looked at craigslist, in their "erotic services" section. There are plenty of women and men who advertise themselves as "massage" people, but it's obvious that they're advertising sex as well. So how does one know how to go about arranging for this without getting in trouble? Like, what if we're being set up by the local vice squad?? Some of the ads sound sincere and some sound pretty hot -- we both found a few that we found mutually intriguing, but we're a little unsure how to move forward without getting into trouble. Anyone out there have any experience with this type of activity? Thanks in advance!