So, I met this older couple at the bar last weekend, the wife gave me her number, and we've been texting. Long story short: Her husband had the fantasy of finding another guy to help please her. So I'm meeting up at their house this weekend. They want to keep it discreet, so we can't go to bars or anything like that. They said they want to keep me as a long term friend/sex partner. Oh, and they're about 20 years older than me. I've had a few three ways before, but we were all drunk, and it was after partying all night together, and we were all the same age, and no one was married lol. Ok, Now heres the thing I need some advice on: How should i play this three way different? How should I initiate the sex? What should I let him do to her first (cuz hes the husband right?)? Should I not kiss her much? anything else I should know? ANY and ALL advice or ideas on this one would be GREATLY appreciated I'm sure I'm not the only guy whose been in this situation.