Need Advice on Friendship Situation?

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I recently met up with another guy three weeks ago at Spa Castle in New York, hang out in the pools, eat dinner there talked about life and interests etc... We seemed to click and shared common interests, we were messaging for a while.

The guy even gave me his number to contact him further even though we chat on Reddit...

Has anyone else got a Spa Buddy and turned it into a social friendship to hang out chill etc OR is the "Spa" buddy relationship strictly for SPA only?

Curious if anyone else has been in my shoes?
 

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Has anyone else got a Spa Buddy and turned it into a social friendship to hang out chill etc OR is the "Spa" buddy relationship strictly for SPA only?
I do not see why a friendship should not be formed in this way. If its a 'gay' spa explaining how you meet your new friend to family and friends may need a bit of working out
 
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I recently met up with another guy three weeks ago at Spa Castle in New York, hang out in the pools, eat dinner there talked about life and interests etc... We seemed to click and shared common interests, we were messaging for a while.

The guy even gave me his number to contact him further even though we chat on Reddit...

Has anyone else got a Spa Buddy and turned it into a social friendship to hang out chill etc OR is the "Spa" buddy relationship strictly for SPA only?

Curious if anyone else has been in my shoes?
What are YOU looking for in this friendship?
 
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Whether you met online or at a “spa”, it doesn’t matter. It seems that the issue here is what do you want out of the meeting? A fuck buddy, a guy to be friends with, a boyfriend? If you feel like it, go out with him, hang out, whatever. You’ll find your groove with him, or not. In any event, I hope you make a great new friend, or something else!

Kisses on all your pink parts,
Jeff
 
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