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So i have a male friend that is very open about his past sexual encounters and those of present(when he has them). Anyway ever since we started really hanging out with each other a couple years back he constantly has talked up how he has a HUGE dick, and like i said this has been going on for years. After all this time i really want to see it! I mean wouldn't anyone want to see if something were true after hearing about it for years?
Now i don't want to suck it or do things with it but i just really REALLY want to see if all the hype he has given it is true!

So what i'm asking is this, does anyone think i should ask him if i could see it?

Personally i think he kinda wants to show me or something. Every time he gets a new sex toy or orders something "private" off a website he has to tell me and then in most cases show me it. He has also come with me to a sex shop to pick out sexy things for me and my girl. Also not to mention he shows me the new porn movie or episode he downloads to his computer. Just a few nights ago he showed me his dildo he got for free from ordering off of some website and we had a some what intimate conversation about things that we both have done. This was three days ago, and i hadn't heard from him till today. so i would like to know what also to do and what might be going on that i am to dense to understand at this point. If anyone has any questions to make a better informed answer please ask.

Thanks in advance, and sorry this is so long but i kinda need to have an outside opinion on all of it.
- Cerebal
 
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If the dynamics of your friendship is like you say it is...you can totally when the time is right ask him to see it..you can even do the young straight guy phrase " hey man you keep talking about it.. show it to me.."no homo" ( I hope that isnt offensive but you know what I mean. I have a friend, work related but we travel a lot together who always when he gets buzzed or drunks says how whatever girl tells him hes big so eventually one day I was like dude you keep sayig that...how big are you...and he just laughed and said its pretty big...and he flashed it and it did look biggish soft..i have seen him in underwear and it looked hefty.. anyway my point is, is you can bring it up in a non sexual way
 
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Don't ask to see it, ask him to PROVE IT!





Evactly what Stephen said ..


PROVE it!
just repeatedly say that, again and again, even if he does not mention anything about his huge cock, just say Prove it! each time you see the guy
Not humiliating, but will put the pressure on huh?
 

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I don't think he'll freak out if you ask. His personal boundries are all over the place. If he's bugged by you're curiosity at least it will get the guy to stop talking about his dick.
 

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Just tell him guys with big dicks don't need to brag about how big their dicks are. If that doesn't get him to pony up, he's hung like an elf.
 

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You could tell him to prove it, or you could chime in with the fact that you're hung as well, or you could just roll your eyes whenever he says it like, "Oh, that again," or you could just not worry about it. I wouldn't ask him if you could see it, though, as that reeks of creepiness. I had a roommate once who would say something every now and then about how he was hung, and it did make me very curious, but I never asked him to see it or did anything to get in that sort of situation. It was confirmed to me, though, by his girlfriend, and then not long after I saw it flop out of his boxers once and it was was pretty long flaccid, so I imagine he wasn't lying.

At the end of the day, just don't do anything creepy that will cause you to lose a friend. Just because he keeps talking about his big penis does not mean he wants you, and even though he might kind of want you to see it, he probably doesn't want you asking him.
 

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sounds like he wouldn't have any issues with you askng or him showing you...doens't seem to have any boundaries with you.
 

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Judging by your photos you're doing fairly well yourself. The next time he mentions his size again just casually ask, "What do you mean by big?" I'm assuming that he has never seen your dick either. If he gives you a number or indicates his size another way chances are your reply could either be, "that sounds about average" or "hmmm, I guess I'm big too." At that point he might get curious as well and then you just plop them both out and settle this once and for all! : )
 

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Most of my buddies growing up showed me their cocks. We compared without reservation. I'd bet you money he does have a huge cock and just wants you - his best friend- to validate it man to man. a chick saying its big is one thing - a bud complimenting it can be just as , if not more, of a compliment because its more risky for him to do so. He wants to show you and hear you brag on it. I would give you one word of advice.... If the little fucker drops his pants - be man enough to do the same so to equal his act of trust and brotherhood. Don't leave him putting it all out there and feeling stupid. Join him. He wants to see yours too. we all want to know what our bros are packing.
 

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well thanks for all the advice i haven't asked him and i might ask eventually but i think ill just let it be brought up in its own time; which might not be very long actually. His birthday was a while back and i got him a gag gift that was a dildo and he really really liked it, to my surprise.
shall i keep you all informed if anyone wants?
 

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Please let us know what happens.:)
But do u just wanna c it, or do u want something more to happen?

I really just want to see it (if it's big or not) and i am totally willing to show him if he wants to see in return. But i am also open to light stroking if it ends up going that way :)