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Hey guys, I got to ask for some advice. I am in my mid twenties and I had circ a few years back to correct a short frenulum issue, it was kind of a rush decision, not checking out the internet and all, and I should have known better. I ended up with a partial circ that almost completely covers my glans when flacid.
I 've been having problems with my climaxing / coming / ejaculating with girlfriend and casual sex, as well as issues with my sensitivity in my penis. I 've seen a couple of docs who say the issue is psycological, and it's in my head. But I have a lot of doubt on that, when I masturbate I come fairly easily and I do it frequently too. Thing is though when I do it "manually" so to speak, i stimulate mostly the area on the underside of the penis where the frenulum used to be and is now a whiter slightly raised bump, this gives me intensely pleasurable feelings and can make me climax very quick. Sadly this area is not stimulated in intercourse (at least it very very seldomly is) even without a condom.
I won't even go into sensations with a condom, they are non existant, even though I feel very hot for the girls I am with. Sometimes especially when the condom gets (it must happen to other guys too...) pushed in when I try to enter a woman who is initially rather tight, and it then (the condom) pushes back up on the penis an almost completely covers the glans with foreskin its a disaster. And more generally what little I feel with no condom, which is something if minimal, it's none with it. With all the problems this carries along of meeting new girls and initiating things with them.
I have even thought of doing a full circ and maybe that might solve my issue. But like I said a sex doc I visited said it would be the stupidest thing to do and he attributed everything in some psycho babble (or not) talk of his. I have also thought of maybe getting too used to my masturbation to the detriment of sex. There have been times especially when the girl is really moist and wants me a lot and I wear a condom that I feel next to zero. And that of course has at times cost me my erection...well what can you do...
I ve been going out with this girl for a few months and we 've had sex for fifteen or so times and I ve not yet cum....hmmm...most of the time it's pleasurable but some times I just feel I am sticking a slab of meat in her, fat, thick and insensitive. Sh it...
In any case I really want to get to the bottom of this. I ve regretted my circ but now it's done so maybe I need to tighten it, I dunno, any help or insight from experience is appreciated. I have posted some pics of johnson too.
I also want to know if the skin is cracking due to abrasion from the circ.
Thanks to anyone who read this and is willing to comment.
Stay hard.
Jack.
Hey guys, I got to ask for some advice. I am in my mid twenties and I had circ a few years back to correct a short frenulum issue, it was kind of a rush decision, not checking out the internet and all, and I should have known better. I ended up with a partial circ that almost completely covers my glans when flacid.
I 've been having problems with my climaxing / coming / ejaculating with girlfriend and casual sex, as well as issues with my sensitivity in my penis. I 've seen a couple of docs who say the issue is psycological, and it's in my head. But I have a lot of doubt on that, when I masturbate I come fairly easily and I do it frequently too. Thing is though when I do it "manually" so to speak, i stimulate mostly the area on the underside of the penis where the frenulum used to be and is now a whiter slightly raised bump, this gives me intensely pleasurable feelings and can make me climax very quick. Sadly this area is not stimulated in intercourse (at least it very very seldomly is) even without a condom.
I won't even go into sensations with a condom, they are non existant, even though I feel very hot for the girls I am with. Sometimes especially when the condom gets (it must happen to other guys too...) pushed in when I try to enter a woman who is initially rather tight, and it then (the condom) pushes back up on the penis an almost completely covers the glans with foreskin its a disaster. And more generally what little I feel with no condom, which is something if minimal, it's none with it. With all the problems this carries along of meeting new girls and initiating things with them.
I have even thought of doing a full circ and maybe that might solve my issue. But like I said a sex doc I visited said it would be the stupidest thing to do and he attributed everything in some psycho babble (or not) talk of his. I have also thought of maybe getting too used to my masturbation to the detriment of sex. There have been times especially when the girl is really moist and wants me a lot and I wear a condom that I feel next to zero. And that of course has at times cost me my erection...well what can you do...
I ve been going out with this girl for a few months and we 've had sex for fifteen or so times and I ve not yet cum....hmmm...most of the time it's pleasurable but some times I just feel I am sticking a slab of meat in her, fat, thick and insensitive. Sh it...
In any case I really want to get to the bottom of this. I ve regretted my circ but now it's done so maybe I need to tighten it, I dunno, any help or insight from experience is appreciated. I have posted some pics of johnson too.
I also want to know if the skin is cracking due to abrasion from the circ.
Thanks to anyone who read this and is willing to comment.
Stay hard.
Jack.