The girls I've befriended some of them I have a sexual attraction to but Ive never even been remotely close to getting in someones pants. The one time I've recieved head was on a dare. I rarely talk about sex with my friends because theyre not comfortable enough with me to talk about it and if they are thy say theyre not comfortable enough with me act with me. Im just confused as to what makes you guys comfortable enough to have sex with someone. I'm a decent looking albeit very shy, and aloof person. But I just dont get why I dont attract any girls.