Hello...let me just start off by saying that you guys are great with all the acceptance in this group, really. I need some help with my personal life and I hope maybe some of you can help me out. I feel terribly alone. I just got done with a 3+ year relationship...and have no idea how to get back on my feet. Relationship wise. Im a wallflower. Thats the best way I can describe myself. Im not shy but really reserved and very selective with who I interact with. Im not down to start hooking with random girls to fill this void. Shortly after the breakup...she started to date one of my close friends and that betrayal hurt a lot. Its mainly why I feel so alone...two of the biggest people fucked me over. I was ready to forget about them both and carry on with my life but she contacted me. We ended up fucking and asked to get back together. She said she was over him and that it didnt mean anything but I could not bring myself to go back after what happened. I just found theyre back together and it hurts me. I dont know why but it does...:frown1: I want to get on with my life and meet new stimulating girls. Im usually around drunk skanky girls and am not really interested. Maybe you guys can share some stories where you have overcome a similar situation...or maybe some advice on things I should try. I thank you in advance.