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Growing123

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Today I met a person that I had not seen in many years. We knew each other to see but never really ever got to speak growing up. But he was always a nice man.
When he saw me there was a flicker of recognition. For reasons beyond my control we could not talk there and then but smiled at each other. I also had to leave early. If I didn't I would have said hello and tried to spark up a friendship.
We both live in different countries but again I start to fantasize about something sparking between us. Even if it didn't I just want to see him after all these years as it feels like we were always meant to know each other but circumstances kept us apart. He was friends with my cousins but they all lived far away now.
I know that while he is here he frequents a bar so I am thinking of popping in there hoping to see him.
I thought to send him a Facebook request but also thought that he may find it strange. Would you all have any advice on how can proceed were I to bump into him at the bar? I'm afraid that I would only be able to introduce you myself and ask him how he is. But after that I would maybe have to say bye and walk away even though I want to flirt with him. Maybe I could offer to buy him a drink but maybe that would be too obvious.
 

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if he is only visiting from another country then i would just not even bother as it won't amount to anything unless you are just looking for a quick hookup and nothing more. with the details you just laid out, i personally would just move on with my life.

as you said, circumstances kept you apart. i've learned in my life that sometimes life is trying to tell you something and sometimes that something is that you should stay away...

your choice though... your life after all. you'd have to burden the consequences whether for good or bad.
 
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