Going to the Dr. tomorrow to talk with her about ED problems. Not nervous about it, Just need to make sure I get the help I need. Dr's nowadays tend to talk you out of chemical help. Years of out of control diabetes and high BP have made it difficult to get and maintain erections. I had a sample pack of 20mg Cyalis that did little to nothing for me. I am finally well controlled and bp is well maintained. I am eager to return to a "Normal" sex life. To the questions... What meds do they prescribe for guys with BP issues? What are the chances for the emergency room visits with the "Perma-Hardon" issue? She won't ask to handle my junk will she? I am far to modest to let my female GP handle my fruit basket. Talking about it is one thing, showing is another. I am just preparing for my visit and want to be ready. Any info you can provide will be helpful. Having difficulty in the dick department is mentally stressful. Thanks everyone.