I need some advice about a guy that I like. We've hooked up once before, and then got to know each other, and he's a really great guy. He's 28 and I'm 21. He says that it's a big deal about the difference in our ages. I've tried to convince him that it isn't really that big of a deal. It's just a number, and if the two people feel the same way about each other than age shouldn't matter. But lately it seems he's been distancing himself from me. My friend started to talk to him, and he said that because of the age difference and that he has some issues to resolve before he gets serious, which is fine by me. I'm not looking to jump right into a serious relationship, I just want to hang out, get to know each other better, and have a good time, then see where it goes. He told my friend, that he'd like to be just friends with me, which i don't have a problem with, but he doesn't return my text messages, he never talks to me online, and doesn't reply to my emails, which makes me think that he doesn't want anything to do with me. I'm so confused about this situation!! what do you guys and gals think that I should do? Give up, and let him go. or just give him time, and see if he actually talks to me. I don't want to let him go though, 'cause he's a great guy, and if nothing else, I'd like to remain friends, it's just hard to do when he won't talk to me!