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2big said:
there are gays everywhere, and most of them will be interested in you for your cock and nothing else.
It certainly sounds like there's nothing more about you worth being interested in.
 

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first off, i know that im new and im not trying to start but i think the way a few of you responded to his question was a little harsh. it didnt seem to me like he implied anything derogatory in his post, just that he was uncomfortable.

that being said, i think that worrying over the mere chance that someone maybe glancing at you is a little immature. but if it's a big enough problem for you that you cant get over, you should change gyms or change out of his view. being that you work with him i'd avoid a confrontation.
 
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I like horribleperson's sense of humor.

I'm so glad you found Horribleperson's advice useful, I hope you let him know how much you appreciated it and benefited from it. The person asking the advice didn’t, and found it pretty offensive, this is what I was touching on.
 

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Tough as Nails said:
I'm so glad you found Horribleperson's advice useful, I hope you let him know how much you appreciated it and benefited from it. The person asking the advice didn’t, and found it pretty offensive, this is what I was touching on.
I'm so glad you're so glad! And "funny" was how I found it. And I did let him know, the same way I let everyone know, by posting here.

If I find something offensive, will you be going to bat for me too, Tough as Nails?
 

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Support group does not infer babysitting service. Gay people are everywhere, just because you happen to know someone is gay doesn't mean plenty of OTHER gays guys haven't been looking at you already. You don't know if the guy from work is even interested in you. Just because I'm a woman doesn't mean every single guy on earth wants my booty, same for you and gay men. If you don't want this particular person to see your package, don't change in front of him! Problem solved.

Horrible is direct, blunt and sarcstic sometimes, but those are qualities most of us have come to admire. Your problem seems to be your assumption that a guy will harass you when he has done no such thing. Kinda borrowing worries, wouldn't you say?
 
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If I find something offensive, will you be going to bat for me too, Tough as Nails?

Of course! But then again, it may just strike me as funny, regardless of how offensive it might really be to you. In that case I'll just say " get over it, because it was funny and it made me laugh.....so that makes it alright in my book!"
 

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Tough as Nails said:
Of course! But then again, it may just strike me as funny, regardless of how offensive it might really be to you. In that case I'll just say " get over it, because it was funny and it made me laugh.....so that makes it alright in my book!"
Fair enough.
 

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GoneA said:
if i get another PM telling me what i said "wasn't nice" and i'm "a horrible person" ... i'm going to kill myself.

which is the point of most the those PM's, anyway - i guess justice will be served.

Oh you too? People think i'm other people all the time.....after the first 500 posts you get use to it.....
 

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cazzogrosso said:
thanks everyone, I know i have to cope with it... for those who asked how he knows I am hung i guess because of jokes being made by others... and I got bulge.

What exactly is he doing? What does his advances consist of? By the way is taking place in the locker room or elsewhere?
 

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Alley Blue said:
Oh you too? People think i'm other people all the time.....after the first 500 posts you get use to it.....
LOL - I think they know exactly who he is.
 

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Alley Blue said:
Oh you too? People think i'm other people all the time.....after the first 500 posts you get use to it.....

i severely doubt it's because they think i'm someone else.