Hi, I dont know where to fit this but a female opinion is what I am counting on a lot. I would not say I had lots of experience but had some experience, but had a nice larger share. She gets it hot and hard but then toys around it a bit and tries to insert it if she is too much lubed up she does not know whats happening or is it inside and i tend to go soft with all the attempts. I thought intially it was me (and even it hurts my ego as I am little above average) but then I realized, well to get be hard again i need to use missionary or something where i insert it (sometimes it pains a bit to her or tightens up). And then we can change it to something like her on top instead of her inserting by herself. (And my problem) sometimes she is so hot that she wants to ride me till the end instead of me taking a break to cool things a bit (after cooling down once i am able to go on quite a long time), and then complain that I come too soon to satisfy her (she does take a little longer to come but nothing that I cant handle). At the end she still tells sex was good, but with those little nags and complains and in general life I am real senistive to that. And to top it she tends to act quite friendly (/flirty) with other guys when something like that happens and that really have me on my nerves. Other problem is ego issue is she is one of the does and delegent at work types and likes to act as care taker. She is not the best looking girl I have dated but she is nice and caring (atleast it seems most of times). I am kind of strategic thinker, shot up in a corporate quite fast and same way got laid off. I had tried out 3 businesses and 1 works great (By grace of God I save a bit and during losses I had relied on those savings helping me remain afloat). At other time if I am looking at its development or working on planning I end up as a guy who does nothing just sit in front of papers. Lot of the time I sit and think before I put things to action and quite into myself which comes out as inattentive, dumb and lazy. Anyways its nagging and bed room incidents which have been lately disturbing me a lot that I have been thinking all sort of things. Any advice.