No, I think alot of people, including myself, are discouraged by posts like this. For example, I have 5 offers to join in threesomes with some local users. Every single one of them has been some creepy 60-something year old weirdo (not even local) who pretends to have a wife so he can get off on some homoerotic sexual chat. 'My wife is at work' or 'she's out shopping' or 'at her parents'... always an excuse, then 'tell me what you would do to her', and eventually 'would you let me suck it?'. I mean WTF. I'm not saying that you are like these other people at all- I'm just disenchanted by all the pretenders.