Hey Guys,
I'm hoping someone out there can advise me on the best way to approach my situation. Here's the backstory - when I was in high school and on an overnight school trip where there were a bunch of guys staying in a hotel room together, a friend of mine (I'd known since we were kids) made a pass at me while we were in bed together. At first I was shocked, but he grabbed my dick and started playing with it. I jokingly told him to stop or things were going to get out of control. He kept fondling me for a few minutes but not too long because we didn't want the other guys to notice.
Some time later I was invited to a slumber party at another friends house and this same guy was also invited. He and I ended up sharing the sofa bed together. This time, I wanted something to happen and we ended up fondling each other most of the night.
OK, fast-farward to present day. I moved back to my childhoood hometown a few years ago and learned that this guy recently moved back to the area as well. He was divorced but recently married his 2nd wife. He's got kids and grandkids and is very happy with his new marriage. Shortly after they were married, they both came to visit me. It was a mini class reunion you could say. As we were catching up with each other and reminscing about old times, he commented on the slumber party we had at the other friends house. He didn't say anything that would have caused his wife to suspect anything, but the fact that he referred to that night shocked me at first. I laughed it off and said that was a fun and crazy night.
After that visit, I asked him to stop by anytime he was in town - he lives a couple hours away but has family in my town. When I extended the invitation to him, I was hoping he would come alone at some point. The next time he visited me he brought one of his relatives - which was fine but not what I was hoping for.
We talk on the phone occasionally but it's been over a year since his last visit and I'm not sure if he's interested or not. I'm not sure if I should try and get him to come by so we can talk or not. I'd really like to know where he stands and/or if he's wanting something more from me.
What to do - what to do?
I'm hoping someone out there can advise me on the best way to approach my situation. Here's the backstory - when I was in high school and on an overnight school trip where there were a bunch of guys staying in a hotel room together, a friend of mine (I'd known since we were kids) made a pass at me while we were in bed together. At first I was shocked, but he grabbed my dick and started playing with it. I jokingly told him to stop or things were going to get out of control. He kept fondling me for a few minutes but not too long because we didn't want the other guys to notice.
Some time later I was invited to a slumber party at another friends house and this same guy was also invited. He and I ended up sharing the sofa bed together. This time, I wanted something to happen and we ended up fondling each other most of the night.
OK, fast-farward to present day. I moved back to my childhoood hometown a few years ago and learned that this guy recently moved back to the area as well. He was divorced but recently married his 2nd wife. He's got kids and grandkids and is very happy with his new marriage. Shortly after they were married, they both came to visit me. It was a mini class reunion you could say. As we were catching up with each other and reminscing about old times, he commented on the slumber party we had at the other friends house. He didn't say anything that would have caused his wife to suspect anything, but the fact that he referred to that night shocked me at first. I laughed it off and said that was a fun and crazy night.
After that visit, I asked him to stop by anytime he was in town - he lives a couple hours away but has family in my town. When I extended the invitation to him, I was hoping he would come alone at some point. The next time he visited me he brought one of his relatives - which was fine but not what I was hoping for.
We talk on the phone occasionally but it's been over a year since his last visit and I'm not sure if he's interested or not. I'm not sure if I should try and get him to come by so we can talk or not. I'd really like to know where he stands and/or if he's wanting something more from me.
What to do - what to do?
