NEED HELP--ANAL PLAY and RELAXING!!!

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Hi all, so I'm a straight man with some bi curious interests lately. First off Ive always been intrigued by anal play so im just starting to get into that now. I have 2 aneros and 2 realistic dildos that I have started to play with. With that said ive had little success if finding any pleasure like i used to when i would just play with my fingers or other smaller toys.

Now for the problem... I'm struggling when inserting the realistic dildos.... I can't even insert them because I think I maybe too tight for a dildo that size. I always start with my aneros to try and loosen up which works but then when i try to insert anything bigger I begin struggling....

So with that said does anyone have any advice as to how I can start using my realistic dildos because my ulimate goal is to enjoy my first real dick.... I WANNA TRY A BIG FAT DICK ANY SUGGESTIONS!!!
 

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Ah, grasshopper, one must first crawl before they walk. I don't think an Aneros is going to loosen you up very much.

Use plenty of lube and first finger your self, working the lube in. Get comfortable with it to the point where you can get at least two finger easily into yourself and then work in a small dildo.

Remember to push out when you being inserting the dildo and maybe pause for a minute to get used to it. Pay attention to how your body responds. What makes it easier, what feels good, what doesn't. After you can easily take a small dildo, move up to a bigger one. Once you're loosened up, taking a bigger dildo will still be work, but doable.

This video might help: Ass Play 101 - How to take a dick up your ass AND enjoy it. - XTube Porn Video - PapiFachero
 

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Use plenty of lube, lay on your side and just work it in, you may want to use a smaller circumfrence dildo to start but with time you will get it in. There will be some pain and burning sensation but it will subside.
 

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Use poppers, my new bloke has 9 inch and fat I'm still trying to get it fully in comfortably but he hits a wall any suggestions of getting deeper without pain, i want him to enjoy banging me deep without the agony
 

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Ah, grasshopper, one must first crawl before they walk.

Ahaha, hilarious. Good advice, too.

Take it slooooooowwwww and easy, OP. Use lots of lube, and reapply frequently. Also, try lots of different positions. As with any other sexual activity, some positions are better than others, and that's all about personal preference.
 

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lan ocean of KY + relax and breath slowly.

Hi all, so I'm a straight man with some bi curious interests lately. First off Ive always been intrigued by anal play so im just starting to get into that now. I have 2 aneros and 2 realistic dildos that I have started to play with. With that said ive had little success if finding any pleasure like i used to when i would just play with my fingers or other smaller toys.

Now for the problem... I'm struggling when inserting the realistic dildos.... I can't even insert them because I think I maybe too tight for a dildo that size. I always start with my aneros to try and loosen up which works but then when i try to insert anything bigger I begin struggling....

So with that said does anyone have any advice as to how I can start using my realistic dildos because my ulimate goal is to enjoy my first real dick.... I WANNA TRY A BIG FAT DICK ANY SUGGESTIONS!!!
 

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Try getting a desensitizing lube. Just ask at any porn/book store. They carry various, with a de-sensing agent built in. It can help a lot, if you follow the instructions. Plus start small and work slowly. Somtimes slowly means days and weeks. You can stretch it to take it. And, if there is someone to help, that's even better. Don't rush it, or you may hurt yourself, and that's no fun.
 

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Try buying and using graduated sized Butt-plugs. Starting with the smallest size and working up to the next bigger size. Go with the smallest you can get, and work up.
Are you cleaning yourself out? That too is important. It will allow more room to use the butt-plugs.


Hi all, so I'm a straight man with some bi curious interests lately. First off Ive always been intrigued by anal play so im just starting to get into that now. I have 2 aneros and 2 realistic dildos that I have started to play with. With that said ive had little success if finding any pleasure like i used to when i would just play with my fingers or other smaller toys.

Now for the problem... I'm struggling when inserting the realistic dildos.... I can't even insert them because I think I maybe too tight for a dildo that size. I always start with my aneros to try and loosen up which works but then when i try to insert anything bigger I begin struggling....

So with that said does anyone have any advice as to how I can start using my realistic dildos because my ulimate goal is to enjoy my first real dick.... I WANNA TRY A BIG FAT DICK ANY SUGGESTIONS!!!
 

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Practice makes perfect. I start with well lubed fingers, a lot of time the lube I use is my prodigious pre-cum, about the slipperiest stuff known to man.

Then move onto my 5 x 4 dildo. Once that goes in easy, then up to my 6.5 x 5 dildo. That one feels exceptional.

Nice thing about doing this every day: ran off last night to meet a guy with a 7.5 x 5 cock. Without having played with my ass all day, he was easily able to slide right in for me. GEE, whod'a thunk it? ;-)