I joined up here to find out how to up the sex life with my girlfriend and I since things aren't exactly clicking physically due to my size. After 14 months of dating she said that due to my size or at least my technique it's never gonna happen down there for her. I'm sure you can see why I joined. You all seem pretty nice and this place doesn't seem like it is only based on porn links to rapidshare so maybe I can find some answers that are better than just listening to loveline.
Hi bromosh. Welcome to the site. =) I recently posted a blog about this topic. I hope you'll read it and ask more questions, as the topic seems to come up a lot. http://www.lpsg.org/blogs/sweetpetite/advice-larger-men-smaller-partners-1890/ I'm hoping that my blog will be a good reference/starting point for people who are seeking advice on the topic, and if more people post questions to it, it might help out others. FYI, I'm 4'11, 110lbs... and had A LOT of issues with size for a very long time. Thanks!
Hi bromosh, I have had the same problem, I'm thick and long, so i know what you are going through. The best position for size issues is with the woman on top, so she can control depth of penatration. have longer foreplay, making sure she is well lubricated, if not, do not insert your penis. Try oral sex or doing what ever turns her on-for hours if you have to, without trying intercourse. use two fingers inside her moving them in and out, then try 3 fingers, without hurting her of course. If she is young, it just might take time to stretch the vagina.
