First off i'm not some pervert in to humiliation or any of that. I have been viewing the site for a while and I have seen some wierd stuff on here. My question is serious on all levels and I really need the women to answer to the best of their ability. I know all women are different, but the insight might help me. I have been married 4 years and been with the same woman for 12 years living together. We were truthful about relationships from the get go and I found out very fast my equipment did not match up to what she had before me, but I did have a bigger one then two of her past bf's.. There's one guy she always loved to brag about and tells about his penis to girlfriends and others right in front of me. Granted we are secure in our relationship. I always find it funny she grasp on to him and his penis size. He was really well endowed and I do not even come close, which is ok. I have met him when we first started dating. He's a really nice guy. We have not seen or talk to him in atleast 8 years now. But she still brags about him and his skills and size. I guess my question is, Is she trying to tell me something? Does she want him again for just sex? She hinting towards extra activities. I can't figure it out. When I bring it up and ask her would she like to ever have another spin she blows it off and says what ever... I really love my wife and I do know that we all have different needs. I just want her to get what she needs to make sure she's enjoying life. This is starting to make me wonder. Is this just a fantasy now or what? I wished I had a bigger one to please her and I do try everything to make her happy with my skills and I try new things and toys etc. Should I just locate this and ask him to come bang my wife or what...???