My guess is that if a guy talking to his friends with his wife or partner in attendance, and started going on about a woman he used to know who was fantastic in bed, and had great tits, it would be bothersome to at least 99% of the female population.
I have to agree. I had a date refer to an ex's breast while we were out with another couple. I wasn't mad or insanely jealous (we were just dating and never had sex) but I found it awkward and disrespectful. That was the last date we went on. Obviously, you wouldn't break up a marriage over this but I would tell your wife that you don't appreciate her stories or if it's not the story that bothers you but the fact that you are questioning whether she is satisfied with you as a sexual partner -- whatever the issue may be -- talk to her about it. If she realizes it bothers you I think she would stop talking about it.
Also, I would be mad as hell if my man starts talking about some woman he had sex with in the past. He can talk about that shit when he is with his buddies but not in my presence.[/QUOTE]
I agree with this. I don't move in social circles where we talk about sexual experiences. I'm assuming that my bf has similar experiences with his friends. I would not tolerate his talking about sexual experiences in front of me whether or not he was complimentary about the other woman. He and I have talked about past sexual experiences privately but more to establish a timeline than to reminisce about any good times that we may have had with another partner.
I'll be honest here, call me sensitive or even overly sensitive, inflexible, paranoid or whatever but I would just not tolerate that kind of talk from my guy. If he persisted in doing so, we would have to part ways.