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I lost my best friend in november over a stupid arguement. I miss my bro. How can I get him back? No sex no flirt. Just common likes interests and deep bond. He won't talk, is very vengful and mean. But I still miss him and his family. He is like my brother. .............just miss him, our friendship so fucking much. Any feedback will help, thanks.
 

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Without specific information it is hard to give sensible help. What was the arg about ? Was he correct about his assertions ? How difficult were you in this fight ? Did you physically fight as well ? If you know his family would any of them help in this delicate situation ? If he's an ass then that makes it harder as they are more intolerant than just normal joe's
 

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That would drive me absolutely nuts! 8 months of being vengeful, mean and not talking to you is a long time. So, I am guessing that this person has anger issues or issues of some kind.....or the argument between the two of you was a lot bigger (at least to your friend).

All you can do is try to make amends, get the person talking to you and if you can't do that, at least make sure he knows that you are open to talking if he ever cares too.

Really that is all you can do. The ball is then in the other person's court. And he may have moved on. That may be his game plan.

Good luck!
 

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A 3rd party (mutual friend) that can mediate the situation works best. You most likely will find out that things were building up for a long time and the argument is what pushed your friendship over the edge.