Need some advice

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Hey guys,

I'm going to lose my v-card in the next few days, and I'm kinda nervous. What kind of steps should I take so that it will hurt less? I'd be really grateful for any tips you'd be willing to share.

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Nice that you have it planned out. Do you know if you intend to top or bottom?

Very briefly if topping don't be impatient listen to the bottom if he says slow down or more lube or whatever, listen to him. Wear a condom.

If bottoming, don't be scared to communicate to the top what you are feeling. Especially as a first time take it slow. Use lots of you fav lube and make sure your top wears a condom. As the bottom it is critical you relax, enjoy it and communicate to your partner.
 

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but what can I do to prepare?


Theres several threads on prepping and one in particular is very good
You will need to search them out, dont think people are going to continually post about it??
One thread was only recent sooooo
Good Luck!