Hey can you guys give me some advice. I am still a virgin bisexual I want to loose it to a man. How can I tell and hook up with a guy and tell that he is gay too. I know there are some gay guys but they are feminine which I hate. I want I man that is the average Joe and not some man who talks gay just a man who is clean and that acts straight not gay. How can I tell if a guy is gay or not. NEED HELP!