Need some advice

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by JoeJoe74, Jan 21, 2008.

  1. JoeJoe74

    JoeJoe74 New Member

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    I have been dating a really nice girl for a about a month now and we seem to have a great time together. She is half Malaysian/Australian and is a very cute but a very petite girl. She was also the one who found this sight and made me join.

    Her previous Bf's were also of Asian extraction and in her words were about half my length and thickness. She loves sex with me but she is having some trouble with my extra length and thickness. Although im not huge, she considers me enormous compared what she is used to...but i guess im considered big from what i've been told on this forum. Im 7.5" long x 6" around(see pic). She loves anal sex and performing oral but i'm having a bit of an issue with this because she is so petite.

    Any advice would be appreciated
     
  2. Principessa

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    So what's your question? If I understood correctly there is minimal to no problem with vaginal intercourse. She enjoys sucking your cock but can't take all of it . . . yet. :wink: And, you are afraid to try anal sex for fear of hurting her. Since she has had anal sex in the past and enjoys it, I would say to just go slow, use plenty of lube and enjoy. Sounds like you have found yourself a keeper. :cool:

     
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    ^^ yeah sorry it's a little vague. Basically she enjoys anal but we tried it once or twice and it hurt her, so she hasnt wanted to do it again since. As for sucking me, she says that she loves it but she is doing this less and less now as she hurt me a few times with her teeth. atm she's not wanting sex a lot and only wants to pull me off and play with me. Obviously something up. I like this girl and want to work it out but not really sure how.

    Cheers
     
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    Ask her whats going on.
    C.B.:saevil:
     
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    I have to agree with cigarbabe, Ask her what is up. I would love to help you out but until I know exactly why she is withdrawing there is nothing I can do.

    If concern how to approach it, here is what I can say. Approach it with concern for her and the lack of play time you enjoyed in the bedroom. Let her know you have notice a reduction in intercourse and that you would like to know why. That maybe you can find a solution to the problem. If she really cares for you she will want a solution too.
     
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    Yeh ask her what is going on? And almost any size guy can hurt a girl when it comes to anal, just have to know what you're doing and not go ramming it in like a hammer.
     
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