I dont understand why I'm sexual attracted to men but not physical. Like I'll see a woman and be like she's fucking gorgeous but when I see a guy that's nice looking or whatever I'll just wonder how big is his dick is. And anyone clarify this up for me or does anyone else feel this way?
Need some understanding
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I feel the same way, sort of. I've always been curious about penises since they come in all shapes in sizes. It's interesting to see what kinda meat some of my friends are packing (if our friendship gets to that point). When it comes to women, I find them attractive and ultimately want to end up with a wife and kids, BUT I can't shake the craving to suck a dick or fondle a buddy from time to time. It's like my brain and my dick are on 2 different waves.
I met a dude on here recently. I got him to cum but I couldn't for some reason. Guess I'm better at giving than receiving. Lol.
I thought I was a weirdo at first, but FUCK IT! I like dicks. I like tits and pussy. I like getting off. Who gives a shit what/who I do? So I'm finally making progress with my sexuality.
I met a dude on here recently. I got him to cum but I couldn't for some reason. Guess I'm better at giving than receiving. Lol.
I thought I was a weirdo at first, but FUCK IT! I like dicks. I like tits and pussy. I like getting off. Who gives a shit what/who I do? So I'm finally making progress with my sexuality.
wow..love the honesty..you are a soul that just wants to experience life without bars
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Thanks man. Took a long time to get here and I STILL have a long way to go. So I definitely feel the OP-er's struggle. I want to experience life without bars but in the south it's difficult, and being chubby and black makes it really hard to meet like-minded people. But I'm keeping hope alive. Lol
Its life bro..every guy feels the same CURIOSITY , but have their own ways to satisfy the urge ex..threesomes, porn, Lockerroom horseplay. You may want to examine if the urge comes from lack of or missing the closeness of a father,best friend. Juz take your time about it and remember not to let someone rush you into actions your not ready for.
I have a friend who loves to have gay sex but is not attracted to men physically. He finds that the more muscles or tattoos a guy, the more it turns him off. However he doesn't like effeminate men either. He does have a gf and loves having sex with her but sometimes crave for some cocks to suck.
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it can take a while for you to adjust to learn to admire someone's entire body, not just be driven by your sexual desire.
One interesting question to thing about is are you only curious about their cock or would you love to wake up in another man's arms or him in yours ?
One interesting question to thing about is are you only curious about their cock or would you love to wake up in another man's arms or him in yours ?
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I'm the same way, and from what I read this is common among a lot of bi guys. I love man to man sex, but I never see a guy on the street and think "He's hot!" Likewise, kissing, cuddling, and other stuff like that is a turn off for me.
I think it is just the fact that we are horny and not picky about the gender. I love to jack off, but hands don't turn me on, if that analogy makes any sense.
