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Hey Guys! I need some suggestions- if you check out my pics, you'll see that I'm in good shape, body-wise, and that I'm moderately above average in the equipment department--- but after a workout when I'm in the showers or steam/sauna, instead of my sac/cock dropping and stretching, I think my junk retreats, due to the hot/cold temperature changes- I get chilled easy.
I don't feel *ashamed* or *embarassed* about my body- when I look across the room in the full mirrors I am proud of my body- and God knows there are MANY guys who are definately in need of serious body reshaping!
At my gym, I tend to get 'cruised' by men age 45-60. Very rarely do I find it flattering. But I think that guys my age or younger tend to 'short change' me, even though every guy knows that some guys grow and some show- to varying degrees- at different times. George Costanza's "I was in the pool!!!!!" comes to mind. You know... shrinkage.
Does anyone have any suggestions of how I might get my cock and sack to hang lower after being in the hot tub/ steam/ sauna? Even if I go in the showers, and turn to the wall and soap myself up "really goooooood....." (you know, fluff it up a bit...) I guess I'm not mentally "there" - so doing that is not all that helpful.
It's like I'm too much of a conservative person... I'm mentally programmed that I'm at the gym, and in public, and that it's inappropriate to get even a little excited.
Understand, I'm not anxious about being naked in public- or about people seeing what I have to offer- I guess I'm just not an "exhibitionist" who might get that extra 'charge' about being naked- so my stuff stays pretty low and to the body- rather than popping out to say 'hi."
I don't even jack off that much- for all of you that are going to recommend laying off the hand for a while.... I think it's more akin to being pee-shy at the urinal. Get me naked in my own home, and I relax and show fairly nicely, thank you very much.
Any one have any good mental tricks that I can play, or suggestions, that might help me be able to retrain myself to be a bit bigger/fluffed up when I'm seen by the other guys in the gym?
I don't feel *ashamed* or *embarassed* about my body- when I look across the room in the full mirrors I am proud of my body- and God knows there are MANY guys who are definately in need of serious body reshaping!
At my gym, I tend to get 'cruised' by men age 45-60. Very rarely do I find it flattering. But I think that guys my age or younger tend to 'short change' me, even though every guy knows that some guys grow and some show- to varying degrees- at different times. George Costanza's "I was in the pool!!!!!" comes to mind. You know... shrinkage.
Does anyone have any suggestions of how I might get my cock and sack to hang lower after being in the hot tub/ steam/ sauna? Even if I go in the showers, and turn to the wall and soap myself up "really goooooood....." (you know, fluff it up a bit...) I guess I'm not mentally "there" - so doing that is not all that helpful.
It's like I'm too much of a conservative person... I'm mentally programmed that I'm at the gym, and in public, and that it's inappropriate to get even a little excited.
Understand, I'm not anxious about being naked in public- or about people seeing what I have to offer- I guess I'm just not an "exhibitionist" who might get that extra 'charge' about being naked- so my stuff stays pretty low and to the body- rather than popping out to say 'hi."
I don't even jack off that much- for all of you that are going to recommend laying off the hand for a while.... I think it's more akin to being pee-shy at the urinal. Get me naked in my own home, and I relax and show fairly nicely, thank you very much.
Any one have any good mental tricks that I can play, or suggestions, that might help me be able to retrain myself to be a bit bigger/fluffed up when I'm seen by the other guys in the gym?