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I just saw the request for cards too, but it could and was perceived by many as a ploy to get money.

Again, an online etiquette was violated.

As much as I wanted people to do nice things for my wife when she was sick, I would never ask the general forum to send cards and then get upset when people did not. Asking for prayers of support is one thing, but asking relative strangers to send cards to someone who, by your own description Lafever, had nothing but contempt for this site, can come across as out of line.

That first week when you and Shani had the horrible fight that played out on the boards, you told the forum that Shani thought several, if not all, of the members here were basically losers. Several members have not forgotten that and probably harken back to it when they see you post still.

No, it isn't fair, but words can hurt. Whether spoken or typed, once they are out there, they are out there for good. I can't help but feel I failed in this to a point. I tried to get you to understand that you may want to watch what and how much you post of your troubles between you and Shani on the forum.

Trust me, my wife and I have our fights and disagreements, but they will NEVER fnd their way onto this forum. This is not the place for them.

Lafever, I am saying this as a concerned person and friend, think before you post. A lot of what you have posted is best kept for real life and not online life. Whether we admit it or not, we come here for an escape and that means in some cases escaping reality or real life for a minute or two. Does that mean we are something we are not? Not always. I am whoi I am whether here or there, but I am not going to share all of my bad here. Someone had suggested that a lot of what you post to threads should be posted in the form of a blog and I agree. A forum post openly invites discussion, good and bad. A blog is just that. You got it off your chest and people may comment or not. If people don't like a blog, they usually bypass it. A forum post is always read and always commented on.

You have a lot on you and it is distressing to see you go through all of this. Please seek help in real life. Whether it be friends to listen, professionals to help, or a family member to hug and console. The biggest help you need right now is human and no monitor or keyboard will give you that.

I am not saying this out of anger or spite, quite the contrary. I am saying this as a concerned party who wants you and Shani to both be as well and healthy as you can be.
okay i just read most of the thread and i agree with osiris, good post man:smile:

if your giving out your mailing address your almost asking for people to spare a couple bucks in the card
 

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I think Osiris has worried too much about stepping on toes around here, but the sincerety of his message did come through. Im sure you will resort to some excuses, possible half-truths or telling him that he has 7x7 inch cock envy.

I just try not to pour gasoline on the brush fire I guess. Maybe it is not stepping on toes, but I don't come online to fight and it just isn't my style. Could my message have been delivered a lot sterner? Of course, but I was hoping that maybe it would hit home if delivered in a peaceful and respectful way as I usually try to do.

Know this though, I can't tolerate empty excuses or promises, half truths will not suffice and believe me, I have no envy of a 7X7 inch cock. I like mine just as it is thank you very much.

Like you, I have had my say and I'm done here. If it makes a difference all the better if not, then it's just a few minutes time I killed typing.

And I still want the BHR Ass Fire Marshall job.
 

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Lafever, you ruined it when you asked for money then complained because no one sent your wife a get well card. :confused:
Not once have i asked for money, i get pm`s asking me if i need financial help and i always say no, but you wouldn`t know that because now you`re just sticking your nose where it doesn`t belong. And what`s wrong with sending cards?
This thread has become so disturbing and a big sign of the things that seem to be wrong in our little online community.
Yes there is something wrong right now in this community, trolls are trying to take over the site, for some reason they think it belongs to them and them alone to dictate.
My friend, let me first address the statement to Think_Kink.
She`s a kid, living off her parents, this is not a news flash. And i still consider her as one of the bratt pack.
Put anger aside, open your eyes and heart, and you too might learn some things from the younger set. I do everyday from my daughter and she is only 17 months old.
I surrely hope it`s the other way around, that she learns form you.
If you want to share this openly online, you have to have an amazingly thick skin. The more of your life you share this openly, the more attacks you invite.
That`s is so disturbing that your opinion of this site is that if you share openly then be prepared to be attacked, thanks for that unbiased opinion, the mods should find that interesting. Maybe they`ll do something about the bratt pack, and return this site to the members.
You have always been kind and cordial to me Lafever and I return that with like sentiment. So stay out of it.
So sorry that you feel the need to stand up for your troll friends, choose the force luke.
Spoiled Princess is a trusted poster and has been a friend from day one.
She`s a irritable, restless and incontent lonley bitch.
Also understand we ALL have been conned by trolls and fakers so when someone asks for cards to be sent (which could be construed as an act of pan-handling for money), tempers are going to flare. I`ve turned down all those wanting to do so, but since you can`t read my pm`s you wouldn`t know that. Unfortunatly the trolls are holding this site hostage, the truth is that there are many good hearted people here they just don`t feel like getting attacked from the troll pack, what`s it like being blind to reality?Y Make sure you are focusing on each other rather than this forum.You should take your own advice and just stay off my thread if your going to stay on the dark side. You only get one shot in life friend. True words to live by, it`s sad you can`t practice what you preach.
You are still in my prayers.
I`m praying for you dude.
ASSuming is the mother of all fuckups, and you have fucked up.
Where did he ask for money? His first post asks for cards to cheer up his wife. I've talk with him a few times and he never asked for a dime.
Maybe you should post our pm`s, you have my permission, and thanks for the support.
I just saw the request for cards too, but it could and was perceived by many as a ploy to get money.
Whatever, you must be jelous becasue you think i`m getting something you`re not, it`s that plain and simple.
Again, an online etiquette was violated.
In your opinion, which are like assholes, you too once jumped my shit, i`m a scorpio, i have not forgotten you`re one of the bratt pack.
As much as I wanted people to do nice things for my wife when she was sick, well you didn`t so you just admitted your jelous of my actions, which are noble. Get a grip on yourself and quit trying to tell others how they should act. Asking for prayers of support is one thing, but asking relative strangers to send cards to someone who, by your own description Lafever, had nothing but contempt for this site, can come across as out of line.
I love this site outside of the trolls grasp, don`t put words in my mouth, and just because you don`t like hallmark cards doesn`t mean my family and i don`t.
That first week when you and Shani had the horrible fight that played out on the boards, you told the forum that Shani thought several, if not all, of the members here were basically losers. Just the trolls who attacked me which are several out of 35,000 current members, you really do feel like you and your troll friends control this site don`t you? Funny how it`s just the few of you, must be why you stick together so tight, misery loves company and i guess it`s comfortable since your shit smells the same. Several members have not forgotten that and probably harken back to it when they see you post still.
And i have not forgotten them as well, i never will so get over it already, the bratt pack of trolls will not dictate my actions or my life.
No, it isn't fair, but words can hurt. Whether spoken or typed, once they are out there,
Oh yeah, the part about once the words are out there are true, they are out there for good, and from now until this site is gone everyone in the world will know who the bratt pack trolls are, so sad, too bad. I can`t help it you`all fucked up and couldn`t keep your biased opionions to yourselves, i think it`s funny watching trolls try and back each other up and team up. It shows how even assholes can team together.
Trust me, my wife and I have our fights and disagreements, but they will NEVER fnd their way onto this forum. This is not the place for them.
That`s funny because this is a support group, not just a porno site like many would like to believe.
It sounds as though we have a group of trolls trying to manipulate the site, trying to govern things so to speak.
A lot of what you have posted is best kept for real life and not online life. So you admitt that you are not what you say you are on lpsg, interesting.
Afraid i`m stealing away from your attention? I`m openly sharing my life right now on one thread, and i do not bring it on anyone elses, so why should it bother you or anyone else to that matter, why not just stay out of my thread.
You have a lot on you and it is distressing to see you go through all of this. Please seek help in real life. Whether it be friends to listen, professionals to help, or a family member to hug and console. The biggest help you need right now is human and no monitor or keyboard will give you that.
So what you`re saying is that in your opinion lpsg is not a support group but a place to be fake.
I am not saying this out of anger or spite, quite the contrary.
Stick your signature up your ass. I know the bratt pack can`t stand it when anyone dares stand up to `em. Well i hate it for the few trolls here, life must really suck that you have no control over me.
Lafever. I wish you and your wife nothing but the best. Remember the bad times. They will make the good times even better. Im sure this is just a bump in the road and good times will return for you.
Thanks, that was felt right here( my heart).
lafever, it disturbs me to see you spouting words like "troll" around when I distinctly remember you harping on the validity of my profile/identity as well as my partner's profile/identity because we switched pics for fun. I could've given you plenty of crap about it but I didn't - I let it go because it really didn't matter to me what anyone else thought.
That was lying and decietfull, if there ever was someone caught lying it was you. And i did not find your deception amuzing, why you weren`t banned for possing as another is beyond me.
Osiris has posted some food for thought. Please consider your own words before hurling insults at others.
How about this, what`s it like being found out to be a fake? And then you have the adacidy to play it off like it was just playing around so you wouldn`t get banned from lpsg.
okay let me get this straight:
shani has a life threatening illness
you have a life threatening illness
you have no money
you have little work
and you think i'm troll for suggesting that you not have a child right now?
I have never said you were a troll, just be carefull who you choose as your friends here, it will stick for life.
I know you have a kind heart, so don`t sweat it snoozan, i know your just trying to fit in.

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IM not a thump the bible type of guy, but you know what, everything happens for a reason. And the old saying is so true..that that doesnt break us, makes us stronger. You are being tested. God didnt leave you, belive it or not, he is still there watching over you, all you have to do is say, and believe me, it does work..lord this is to much for me to handle you have to help me with this.

If you still do not beleive then PLEASE read this and it is all true.
My mother..a hard core alcholic was confined to bed with excruiating pain, one night she said, "lord ill make you a deal, you take away this pain and i will never touch another drop of alcohol. The next day she woke up with no back pain, and 12 years later she still has not had a drop of booze. Ill tell you, this woman would start drinking the moment she got up, you and i would have coffee, she would have a beer.
You are being tested by god, DONT GIVE UP, HE IS WATCHING OVER YOU.
Thank you for that, it was heart felt.

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Thats my final say. I will no longer be involved with this thread or any others like it. Boy i wish that was true, according to the posts you`ve typed since this statement you have clearly labled yourself as a lier to the whole world and clearly a troll. It started out with good intentions and the real persona behind the tragedy comes out and its gone bad....way way bad ever since. I have no patience for attention whores. I dont care if its money related or not.

Please start an online diary/blog or whatever you need to get your message out there with only private responses that you can get. Don't burden everyone else on a forum- where their are real people with life experiences and advise, opinions or whatever you dont like to hear. It would be easier for everyone including yourself.

And in the words of Susan Powter "STOP THE INSANITY!"

You are such a drama queen, funny how all you have to do is stay away from this thread but for some reason you just can`t do it, you know you fucked up so just admitt it. You want the mods to nuke this thread for fear all of the world will know your a troll and a lier, and yet you just keep posting here, you`re obviously into double standards, do as i say not as i do.

Everyone has a choice of what thread to post in, there are thousands of them just waiting for your pressence, so stop the insanity and quit clicking onto this one.

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Now to start with, I know next to nothing about you other than the swill you spew out here on this board; most of which, I have to admit sounds a little suspicious. That said, there may be genuine truth to every last word which you have written (and I may well be one of the Radio City Music Hall Rockettes-newsflash, I'm not.)

And now back to your Wilson's Syndrome-which must not be confused with Wilson's Disease which although also horrendous is...well, you don't have that (yet:rolleyes:) so why go into more details on it? Let me address what you have posted.
I`ve had symptoms of this for several years but the swelling in the face and eyes, the cronic joint pain, dimentia,
Well, that certainly explains a great deal.
and fatique are starting to overwhelm me
at the number of posts and the length of the average post that you are putting up, I am having sincere difficulty in not being dubious about your alleged fatigue. Fatigue, dear lad, would indicate to us that you are tired. Being tired in turn would reduce the number of posts you are making because you see, you'd be here far less time since the fatigue (tiredness) would have you slumbering away all day and all night Maryanne.
Last month i had a case of mrsa and the er gave me Sulfa to combat the infection, this is what kicked all this off, the condition was pre-existing.
Now hold on there Lafever... just a few lines back you said this was lurking in you and showing its ugly symptomatic face for a few years,(Your words were: 'I've had symptoms of this for several years'), which is it ? A or B?



The way i feel i`m willing to try both remedies for both disorders until i get a definate from the doctor on what`s going on, i`ve had blood tests run several times in the last year and nothing turns up(no std`s or nothing) but i cannot deny the symptoms and the pain. My temperature has gone bad to worse in the last month.


lafever:cool:[/quote]Interesting...
In the event that this is true, then I can only wish you the best medical help. In the event that none of this is true I can only wish you the best psychiatric help.

When it comes to your family, contact the DHR (Dept. of Human Resources) for the State of Alabama. There will be a certain amount of footwork and telephone calling which you will need to do; however, if you care for your loved ones, you will be more than willing to do it. Start here: Family Assistance Links or go here for a full selection: Alabama Department of Human Resources
 
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