I'm a straight male, and have a close friend who myself and many others suspect of being gay. He's a really good looking guy, and has NEVER had problems attracting females, but has only had sex once when he was younger and takes no interest in having any form of sex with willing girls. He's 25 and always makes it an issues to tell his buddies when we go out that he needs to "find his girl tonight"... but when push comes to shove, and a GORGEOUS female gives him any attention, I mean, ANY attention he shys away at the opportunity to even get to know her, and picks her apart as if she's not up to par. The only two things I could possible imaging being an issue with my friend is either, he has a problem with his tool and is extremely self concious, OR, he doesn't know how to accept the fact that women may not be of interest to him. I don't know how to ask him and feel as if I want to ask him so he can finally be happy if he is homosexual. I and many others will be extremely supportive, but seriously DON'T know how to approach the situation so I don't offend him. From the gay and straight here, any advice would be appreciated... should I even ask, or is it none of my business to make assumptions. How did many of you "come out"? Thanks for your responses.