Needing ideas-initiating sex

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  1. B_enzia35

    B_enzia35 New Member

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    What's your best way of getting your SO raring to go?
    Or anyway is good too.
     
  2. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Care to fill us in on a little more information about your SO? It would help with finding a more customized response that could be more successful than just random advice.
     
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    How about a girl you went on several dates with, but told you dont want to date? Nothing against her, just not in the market.
     
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    Any scenario would do. Married, FWB, GF/BF.
     
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    Rouge is right to ask; people vary so much that it would really help to have some background. You titled the thread "needing ideas" -- if it was just "how do you initiate sex" that would make it clear it's just a call for stories.

    With my now-serious girlfriend, she really gets turned on when she feels like she has a challenge. I either literally fight with her (rape fantasy/rape fantasy adjacent type of thing) until she's pinned down, then push her in to the wall and pound her hard. Tying her up is fun here too. We have a safe word and everything of course.
    The other, easier way to initiate is to specifically not initiate. If I just ignore her even trying to kiss me on the cheek, it drives her crazy and before I know it she'll be grabbing my dick and forcing it inside her.
     
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    just ask if they are interested in the ride. and show them your cock
     
  7. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    People seem to be missing the obvious- he's wanting more sex with his partner and needs some ideas to get her horny and wanting him. This is not "How do I get a random person to fuck me" thread. Geez.

    Read what Shannon wrote, he put far more effort into the answer than anyone thus far....including the thread creator I'm afraid.
     
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    Cook dinner AND do the dishes. Works evey time....
     
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