Needing ideas-initiating sex

[B_enzia35]

What's your best way of getting your SO raring to go?
Or anyway is good too.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Care to fill us in on a little more information about your SO? It would help with finding a more customized response that could be more successful than just random advice.

 

[StatusQuo]

How about a girl you went on several dates with, but told you dont want to date? Nothing against her, just not in the market.

 

[B_enzia35]

Any scenario would do. Married, FWB, GF/BF.

 

[ShannonH]

Rouge is right to ask; people vary so much that it would really help to have some background. You titled the thread "needing ideas" -- if it was just "how do you initiate sex" that would make it clear it's just a call for stories.

With my now-serious girlfriend, she really gets turned on when she feels like she has a challenge. I either literally fight with her (rape fantasy/rape fantasy adjacent type of thing) until she's pinned down, then push her in to the wall and pound her hard. Tying her up is fun here too. We have a safe word and everything of course.
The other, easier way to initiate is to specifically not initiate. If I just ignore her even trying to kiss me on the cheek, it drives her crazy and before I know it she'll be grabbing my dick and forcing it inside her.

 

[bigirishman]

just ask if they are interested in the ride. and show them your cock

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

People seem to be missing the obvious- he's wanting more sex with his partner and needs some ideas to get her horny and wanting him. This is not "How do I get a random person to fuck me" thread. Geez.

Read what Shannon wrote, he put far more effort into the answer than anyone thus far....including the thread creator I'm afraid.

 

[tamati]

Cook dinner AND do the dishes. Works evey time....