Negative factors of having a big cock!

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1.condoms not fit
2.u may stop by your partner when u went to hard
3.touching to toilet when u sitting
4.she may bite if she was not good with oral
5.Very hard to accept for anal sex
 

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There are too many to list. Sex with a new partner can be impossible. Running and sports in general, sitting on a toilet w/o elevated seat, men's lockroom, underwear.
 

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There is certainly the problem of where to position it in your underwear -- downwards is about the only logical place since gravity ruins the other choices very quickly. Then either down one leg of boxer briefs or the other is not very comfortable either. Other than discomfort, a real departure from my love affair with my large penis occurs in face down positions in yoga class -- I cannot put the penis back between my legs where I want to without drawing lots of attention so I go ahead and virtually crush the shit out of the thing every time. I can actually hear the grinding of the tissues when I do the bow which puts all the weight essentially on the penis -- awful!!
 

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I remember back at school i got given the nickname "Boner Boy" because everyone assumed that my large package was due to a seemingly constant erection. It was pretty embarrasing but also quite funny i suppose!
 

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Yes, so many things.

Please see my post today in the Clothing, Underwear and Appearance Issue section under the heading "Does the world know you are hung?"
I wrote a good deal about it and the problems and negative factors of being uniquely endowed.
What I did not mention was that I can't use a urinal but have to find a stall to unwrap myself. I can't wear regular underwear as nothing fits,and I have tried every brand on the market, so I use cloth to wrap myself up. Usually a very stretched out (so the elastic is broken so as not to bind) 4" wide ace bandage. I use two of them.
I can't really sit on a toilet so I sort of hover a few inches above the seat and hold everything up cradled and resting on my left hand and left forearm. If the toilet paper dispenser is on my right side. If it is on my left, I use the other hand and forearm.
I can't play sports, or run. I do lift weights and use a stairmaster for cardio. The only sport I can "play" is I hike sometimes and I scuba dive. I had to go to St Pete, FL to a maker of custom wetsuits to have them make me a suit. The suit works, but it shows too much bulge and makes me look like I am wearing a diaper that is full and hangs between my legs. Not the best solution but I like the sport for a lot of reasons. I then learned to dry suit dive so that I can use that because it gives the additional advantage of hiding a lot because of the bulk of the suit.

Sex is a problem. Most women really want to "see" and usually tell me or give the impression they are really excited about having sex with me. Then when I drop my pants and they do "see" and most of them freak out...and I am not even erect yet. They all want to look and touch and play with me, but most change their .minds and just "want to touch and play with you" but aren't willing to even try sex. For most of those few who do at least try, they simply can't adjust to take much, if any, of me no matter how many orgasms they had from oral and play beforehand and how really wet they are. A rare partner has been able with patience and work to take some of me, but no one has taken all of me since I was about 15 and she was one of the few who could do it even then when I was considerably smaller than I am now. I have not had a partner who had a mouth big enough to even take the head since then as well. Lots of licking and using their hands on me. The few women I have met who can take some of me I count them as a wonderful experience.

I have put up with all that because I am trying, as is possible, to live my life as a much as possible as a "normal" person.

I could go on and on but the idea is that being too big is just that...too big.

More often, and on a daily basis, it is a curse and rarely a blessing. But it is what it is and I have long since accepted that.
My best wishes to everyone.
Ben
 

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Although I am not as hung as most on here (8.5x7") I have very large balls that require a lot of support. Boxers are out, as with freeballin as it can cause a deep ache in the groin area. The only thing with wearing a supportive brief is that it gives you a very large bulge in the trouser department, this can often lead to a fair bit of attention. Although I have learnt to live with this, not sure as I get older and nature takes it course, how a discomfort this may become.
 

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wrench said:
wife wont have sex with me anymore. been 5 years now.
That's not big dick specific, it happens to everyone that's ever gotten married ! That is unless you go elsewhere and get the service.

I'm surprised I didn't read getting the damn thing caught in the metal zipper of your blue jeans. balls and/or dick. I guess that could also be not limited to penix size as well ? It's tough to get all that back into a relatively tight pair of jeans and something inevitably gets pinched.
 

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I have to agree with most of the comments made here. I am not as massive as some of you guys, and still I have learned to maneuver onto to the toilet. Its an unconscious habit at this point. Bending over in jeans can sometimes be a challenge with my crank sandwiched between the fabric and my thigh. I can only imagine what it must be like for some of you. My sympathies ... seriously.

The underwear thing is a huge issue. I try not to wear any at all, but winters in here are cold. I find wearing thermals with no underwear is usually best. Boxers ride up high with my junk hanging out down one trouser leg. The stuff in my pockets pushes my parts all up and out in the front. Briefs make this grapefruit shape that is hard to miss. I often catch people talking to me and stealing stares at my crotch, EVEN AT WORK. Thing is I have never tired of how proud it makes me - hehe.

The only SERIOUSLY negative thing I have ever encountered is sexual partners who can't handle it. At least they try. I was lucky to have an amazing BF at a young age who could take most of me all the time. He loved it. After that ended, I have never encountered a single person who can handle it in both mouth and hole. It's either none or one or the other. Never both. It has frustrated me for yrs and caused me to back out of relationships with wonderful people. It even gone as far as preventing me from seeking dates out of sheer fear that I am just going to be objectified, once again.

Beyond that, I hate the fact that I have a hard time telling if someone likes me or just likes my cock. Being gay, I find that men are typically shallow and very willing to hookup. I keep having casual relationships, seeing the same person a few times a week, but never developing a strong connection over the course of months. It has taken a long time to accept, but I am guessing they just like the size of my meat and not what I have to offer romantically. Time to change gears and accept it for what it is. Or ... maybe fags are just shallow promiscuous sex machines and I need to accept my path in life and stop trying to find love.
 

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Paleeeeeeze! Regular trojan condoms fit me fine. They don't cover my whole shaft, but it works. I've bought Magnums and XL and never could tell much of a difference. I did try Durex a couple years ago cuz 2 or 3 buddies told me how much better they were. Durex doesn't stretch enough. I split those things trying to put them on. Its a great party trick!

Pecker in the crapper. Only at hotels that have a low profile bowl. At home I have a deep bowl and its fine.

People staring at my bulge. Meh? Who doesn't like that. But I ware baggy pants most of the time. Girls don't dig bulges. I do get looks at the pool. I'm a triathlete and swim in a speedo. But the unwritten rule among competitive swimmers is either you don't look, or its a very quick, discrete glance.

The only real negative is the limited sexual positions and no anal, at least for me, at least not yet. And no I don't dig guy ace.

Stop the bitchfest. I love havin a big one!
 

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All you super hung gay guys..It WILL fit ME. I'm quite proud I've never told anyone it was too big; I've had lots of fun & so have my partners! This is called turning a negative into a positive!

Oh yes, I am still able to control the muscles in my rectum quite well, thank you. If anything this sort of activity has toned everything quite well.

I'll either get all sorts of propositions or I'll get the hell flamed out of me.
 

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With girls is very hard to find one able to handle it properly (just one in the ass) and you got to be very carefoul (which sometimes make you unsteady and too mutch worried).
Same problems with men, many of them says that they can but at the end...no way.
 

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faculae said:
Beyond that, I hate the fact that I have a hard time telling if someone likes me or just likes my cock. Being gay, I find that men are typically shallow and very willing to hookup.
I have to admit, I never really thought of it like that...as an average guy, I would love to be bigger; I don't have much going for me in any kind of aesthetics-related area, and having a huge cock would make up for that. I guess I can see though how you would be insecure about whether a guy is attracted to you for you when you have a massive package.

Ahhh gay guys are all shallow cunts, eh... :\
 

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asdfg1234567890 said:
Hiding an erection really is an issue - at least average/small guys can conceal it and carry on without getting noticed most of the time - I have a real problem because with significant girth as well it is near impossible to hide

I can do what I want, no chance to hide. And I am "only" 8x6 but it can get hard as stone. Now try to hide that.
 

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For me the only negative is getting into a saddle. Usually pulling everything up and keeping it there takes care of it for the landing. Then there is a big bulge when riding but who cares. sliding into a car that has been in the sun with leather seats can really wake me up if not careful.

Everything else is a bonus the way I see it. What is the difference with being too small or too big and having sex. You may still get the same number of rejections but the ones willing to put up with you either love you or love it and its going to be different everytime you do it even with the same person. One of the fun parts about being big is challenge it creates.
 
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A few things come to mind:

- Finding condoms that fit well is an expensive and difficult task.
- Swimsuits can be extremely embarrasing! At a local swimming hole there were fine women walking around _everywhere_. I got a little too excited and had to jump into the water for 5-10 minutes until I calmed down. Repeadely :(
- Having your dick touch toilet water is never a pleasurable experience


There are more upsides in my opinion though:

- I love the fact that I cant get a titty fuck and get a blow job at the same time
- I've had a couple of threesomes, and it's a beautiful sight to see 3 hands work you at once.
- My favorite upside is when I know that I fill a girl up completey and entirely. Knowing that I am touch places that regular endowments about 1/2 my size can't even come close to reaching is a huge turn on.
 

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Swimsuits can be extremely embarrasing!

I was suprised that more guys haven't mentioned more of this. Going to the pool or beach usually takes a ton of planning. The normal pair of swim trunks has a mesh lining in it. I can't deal with that, so I have to wear speedo's underneath my swim trunks. That doesn't even begin to scratch the surface when it comes to getting wet and walking around. I tried surfing a years ago, and that's completely out of the question.

I don't have any issues with restrooms because I got over the stares a long time ago.

I've never had a girl say "NO!", they just try their best and we make the best of it.
 

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At American public pools and beaches, I wear dark Speedos, in the water, and wear over sized Umbros, over the Speedos, for walking around. I've twice had self-righteous wing psycho Christian heifers call the cops on me for walking, on the beach with just Speedos on.

Urinals have been an issue, when shaking to much and touching the backwall or toilets when leaning forward and hanging in or touching the bowel. YUCK!!!!

Not only women have said no to me; some before, others during insertion. After high school, most people changed their minds.

High school gym locker room was because of a shower erection and subsequent issues. At college, I got over the sexlessness caused by the shower incident issues and shyness, I made up for the lost sex time, with continuously compounding interest.