Neighbor

aren88

Superior Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Jul 3, 2016
Posts
350
Media
39
Likes
4,623
Points
413
Location
Chicago (Illinois, United States)
Verification
View
Sexuality
90% Straight, 10% Gay
Gender
Male
I have this neighbor who's always grabbing himself when we talk.

The other day, he was watering his plants and was definitely freeballing and sporting a semi while we were casually chatting. Didn't even bother hiding it.

He's a young dude, engaged to a woman, but I'm curious if he's sending some signals. Not saying he wants to fuck or anything, I'm just wondering if he probably has some curiosities. Anyone have ideas on how I could proceed with this?

Its pretty apparent to be honest, pretty much every time we talk, he's scratching his junk. Not the occasional scratch or adjustment, he reaches for his junk every few seconds.
 

ronin001

Mythical Member
Gold
Platinum Gold
Cammer
Joined
May 16, 2009
Posts
10,295
Media
54
Likes
47,045
Points
618
Location
New York (United States)
Sexuality
99% Straight, 1% Gay
Gender
Male
I grew up in NY, personally I remember a few guys who subconsciously grabbed and adjusted their junk, when talking to others. I remember a coworker making a joke to a guy, as he was doing it. The junk adjuster, broke out in a laugh, as he did not realize he had touched himself. though he did it all the time

If you stop focusing on the neighbors his junk, when you talk, the situation , will probably eliminate itself. I have neighbors and we barely ever talk, other than a wave or a Hi. Is it a coincidence, that when he is outside, you happen to be outside ? Is he outside first; and rubs his balls and you magically appear, like a Jeanie from a lamp . OR are you outside and he magically appears to rub himself ?

As I love to give advice, be careful pushing boundaries, some once pushed, can not be reset to their original parameters. I leave you to figure out , what that means
 

SamMann75

Superior Member
Joined
Aug 15, 2018
Posts
1,054
Media
0
Likes
3,268
Points
233
Location
Massachusetts (United States)
Sexuality
90% Straight, 10% Gay
Gender
Male
Never noticed my neighbor adjusting himself or notice anything else about his crotch. Then one very hot day he was working in the yard, he grabbed the hose and started rinsing his hands, then over his head... he stripped down and hosed himself off... from my distance you couldn't help notice how low his very thick cock hung. I watched him walk to the back door and an interaction with his wife before she grabbed it and tugged him inside.

After that everytime we talked I couldn't help glancing down to see if it was noticable... that's when I realized he was constantly adjusting himself. Finally I made a conscious effort to ignore my curiosity and not glance down... and I noticed that he stopped adjusting himself so much.

I don't know if he was even conscious about doing it or my glances, but maybe your neighbor is reacting to something you are doing?
 

cofrader

Superior Member
Joined
May 2, 2006
Posts
1,601
Media
3
Likes
2,527
Points
368
Location
Earth(mostly)
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Male
He's a young dude, engaged to a woman, but I'm curious if he's sending some signals.
Signal that he is using his tool to much with her?
He managed to get on a relation and engaged with a woman that means he can effectively comunícate his feelings and take the chance when he loves someone.
But with you you think he becomes shy with you and has to send rudimentary signals.
Don’t flatter yourself he is young and if you remember it was often no reason hardons. Perhaps what you consider a hardon is just him, I received stares and bad faces thinking I was hard but in time they realize it was just me.
Some men touches himself all the the time with no reason.
If you really want to know if your dead Schrodinger cat is dead be a man and ask him.
 

jtheimpaler

Legendary Member
Joined
May 20, 2012
Posts
1,035
Media
0
Likes
1,604
Points
458
Location
UK
Sexuality
99% Straight, 1% Gay
Gender
Male
I have this neighbor who's always grabbing himself when we talk.

The other day, he was watering his plants and was definitely freeballing and sporting a semi while we were casually chatting. Didn't even bother hiding it.

He's a young dude, engaged to a woman, but I'm curious if he's sending some signals. Not saying he wants to fuck or anything, I'm just wondering if he probably has some curiosities. Anyone have ideas on how I could proceed with this?

Its pretty apparent to be honest, pretty much every time we talk, he's scratching his junk. Not the occasional scratch or adjustment, he reaches for his junk every few seconds.

In the U.K. it’s not uncommon for young men (particularly the type who favour matching tracksuits) to continually adjust themselves… or even put both hands in their trackers / trunks to either (I presume) keep their hands warm or check their dick hasn’t dropped off
I’m not talking every guy here, but it’s certainly not uncommon

tread carefully…. He may just make bad underwear choices
 

twfarrell

Legendary Member
Joined
Jun 12, 2017
Posts
652
Media
0
Likes
1,927
Points
213
Location
London (Greater London, England)
Sexuality
99% Gay, 1% Straight
Gender
Male
Could also be a nervous thing. It’s well known that when men feel nervous the body automatically begins to protect the parts of the body that are essential.

Or it could just be a pretty bad habit. We don’t know whether he does this always in his home and it’s must obviously more noticeable when he’s in public.
 

Gj816

Mythical Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Feb 13, 2017
Posts
7,283
Media
86
Likes
26,407
Points
333
Location
Nashville (Tennessee, United States)
Verification
View
Sexuality
90% Straight, 10% Gay
Gender
Male
I don't know maybe it's just me, but I don't pay any attention to my neighbors crotch. I guess I just figure we've both have the same equipment.

I work with a lot of men that are constantly grabbing their crotch. I don't read anything into it. Some are younger some are older. I guess they're doing it out of habit.
 

jtheimpaler

Legendary Member
Joined
May 20, 2012
Posts
1,035
Media
0
Likes
1,604
Points
458
Location
UK
Sexuality
99% Straight, 1% Gay
Gender
Male
I don't know maybe it's just me, but I don't pay any attention to my neighbors crotch. I guess I just figure we've both have the same equipment.

I work with a lot of men that are constantly grabbing their crotch. I don't read anything into it. Some are younger some are older. I guess they're doing it out of habit.

I work in people’s houses and the other day a woman openned the door in her dressing gown with wet hair…. I think it’s a sign she wants my babies….
 

sportsmanc

Sexy Member
Account Deletion Pending
Joined
May 11, 2021
Posts
46
Media
0
Likes
79
Points
18
Location
London (Greater London, England)
Sexuality
100% Gay, 0% Straight
Gender
Male
In the U.K. it’s not uncommon for young men (particularly the type who favour matching tracksuits) to continually adjust themselves… or even put both hands in their trackers / trunks to either (I presume) keep their hands warm or check their dick hasn’t dropped off
I’m not talking every guy here, but it’s certainly not uncommon

tread carefully…. He may just make bad underwear choices

I heard that the act of doing this (hand down trousers amongst younger men) originated from gang culture - to signify there was a possibility of a weapon down there (an actual weapon :p)
 

Mike hung

Superior Member
Joined
Sep 21, 2015
Posts
1,312
Media
21
Likes
4,376
Points
233
Location
Truro
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Male
Used to work with a dude who always unconsciously touched his junk all the time, when he was sat at break time he'd be chatting and shove his hand in his pants, the dude was straight, just a habit he'd formed and didn't even realise he was doing it unless someone called him out.
Hot weather I have to adjust myself anyway due to shit getting hot and sticky, probably nothing in it bro.
 

Alex22876

Worshipped Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Feb 6, 2013
Posts
2,292
Media
293
Likes
17,062
Points
483
Location
Raleigh, North Carolina, United States of America
Verification
View
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Male
I have this neighbor who's always grabbing himself when we talk.

The other day, he was watering his plants and was definitely freeballing and sporting a semi while we were casually chatting. Didn't even bother hiding it.

He's a young dude, engaged to a woman, but I'm curious if he's sending some signals. Not saying he wants to fuck or anything, I'm just wondering if he probably has some curiosities. Anyone have ideas on how I could proceed with this?

Its pretty apparent to be honest, pretty much every time we talk, he's scratching his junk. Not the occasional scratch or adjustment, he reaches for his junk every few seconds.

nervous habit I am sure. There are people that say it is subconscious or something but I just think it is a lack of awareness and self control
 
  • Like
Reactions: Gj816