do you think there is something wrong with having straight/gay/lesbian as a choice in an application for housing? it sounds like segregation though. im sure more than not a straight guy would opt, if given the option, for another straight guy to dorm with, and i would think a gay guy would do the same. wut problems do you think that will cause? but can it be called segregation if the party chooses to room with another straight or gay guy?but then what happens to the bisexual people? or the transgendered? im so imaginative tonight.
Individuals can and will often choose to segregate themselves to like individuals. But how does that benefit society or your growth as an individual? Living segreated and socializing only with like minded indiviuals, people would have have no basis to understand social differences, and many will approach those unknown difference from fear.
Think about the "typical" straight guy going to college at 18. He's probably never known an "out" gay guy and he's afraid he going to hit on him, make a move on him, or even worse. By mixing it up, you eat away at those stereotypes and bring a human element to some aspect of diversity.
People fear the unknown. Especially in others.
Alot of the college experience is about breaking out of the comfort zone that your family and youth have created for you. It's about experiencing the diversity of the world. A liberal arts education is about all of their experiences be they academic, social, fraternal, athletic, financial, etc. that make you a well rounded adult and person of the world.
That goes for your roommate as well.
College is a stepping stone to the real world. It's a bit less controlled than high school, but a bit more controlled that the business/professional world on your own.
Enjoy it and remember that everyone is just as nervous as you for their own reasons. Most colleges have a required orientation program for freshmen students a few days to a week before classes begin, and one to two weeks of campus activities designed to make you feel at home and comfortable once you've arrived. Some of those are dorm or floor based, while others are campus wide to expose you to the campus life in general.
Remember your RA is your friend and if anything seems wrong you should have NO problem talking to them, or find an RA that you feel comfortable talking with. RA's go through extensive training, and they shouldn't blink an eye at any issue, especially GLBTQ issues. It's not easy to be an RA, they are a special breed of college student and the selection process is rigourous.
You'll be fine. Just take it as it happens and judge each situation indiviudally and based on the circumstances of the situation.