this thread makes me sad down into my toes
please tell me you have orgasms already, from whatever things you do together... please. what Nitrofiend said is exactly right: "How horny you make him is no indicator of how the sex will be." it may make you feel very powerful to control his arousal like that, I agree, it's a rush when someone is turned on by you. but guys -- especially young guys -- get turned on very easily. you should be more worried about what turns YOU on.
I fear you are signing up for a lifetime (okay, let's be honest, a few years) of mediocre sex, and as a virgin, you won't even know the difference. it's heartbreaking. please, at least explore yourself and know what YOU want before you start thinking about him.
a woman who is a good lover is a woman who knows her own body. otherwise you are just a cum dumpster... a receptacle. yeah, he'll jack off using your pussy. but you won't be a real participant unless you get your cookie too.
please tell me you have orgasms already, from whatever things you do together... please. what Nitrofiend said is exactly right: "How horny you make him is no indicator of how the sex will be." it may make you feel very powerful to control his arousal like that, I agree, it's a rush when someone is turned on by you. but guys -- especially young guys -- get turned on very easily. you should be more worried about what turns YOU on.
I fear you are signing up for a lifetime (okay, let's be honest, a few years) of mediocre sex, and as a virgin, you won't even know the difference. it's heartbreaking. please, at least explore yourself and know what YOU want before you start thinking about him.
a woman who is a good lover is a woman who knows her own body. otherwise you are just a cum dumpster... a receptacle. yeah, he'll jack off using your pussy. but you won't be a real participant unless you get your cookie too.