i've always had a great time in Saunas...
First time i went in i just sat and watched the porn and wanked. Men would walk in and their eyes would pop, and they'd give you a look as if to say "need a hand/mouth"... if you want them, you show them your cock, if you dont, you just shake your head and they walk away.
I have always found it so horny, going and being an exhibitionist and having people watch and seeing them get hard, and sucking off complete strangers...