Never Been Completely Satisfied

[SandraSmithCarver]

Yes, it's true. I've never been completely satisfied. And, that is what brings me here.

I've never had a well-endowed man. Don't know why not, just never happened. I've not been with many men, but the ones I have been with have been average at best.

So, I guess what I'm wondering is:

1) The most obvious: Would sex be better/more satisfying with a larger penis?
YES!!!!
2) What if I were not able to take it all in...would the man be disappointed/frustrated?
You could, if he takes it slow, women kind of open up, the more aroused you are, the wetter you get, he will be able to tell how big you are when he puts it in, and how he needs to do it, or at least should

3) How in the heck does one set out to find a well endowed man? I mean, I can't just ask a man if he is well endowed (you can on phone chat lines)
and if he wants to have sex with me just to see if he can satisfy me.

There are chat phone lines that I've had luck with, such as Lava Life

I've really been thinking about it a lot lately. Maybe not only because of what was mentioned above, but very possibly because I'm in my prime.

Silly? Maybe. However; I really want to experience.

Not Silly at all, its a wonderful thing!

 

[zany_girl]

zany_girl, you could check out ads on Craigslist. There are plenty of ads for casual encounters by guys in Minnesota. Many post their measurements or pics. One bit of warning: a lot of guys exaggerate their sizes on such ads. A hookup with a really hung and kind man could turn into a really hot relationship!

Ah yeah, well it was about 5 miles east of here that the girl got murdered by answering an ad from cl.com and about 10 miles in the other direction that man anwered an ad, opened his door & saw about 6 guys...when he woke up, all of his belongings were gone and had a severe headache from getting the crap beat out of him!!

I know...gotta be careful no matter what, but I'm a bit skeptical or maybe too careful.

 

[lucky8]

my parents have a cabin in MN...

 

[B_quietguy]

Ah yeah, well it was about 5 miles east of here that the girl got murdered by answering an ad from cl.com and about 10 miles in the other direction that man anwered an ad, opened his door & saw about 6 guys...when he woke up, all of his belongings were gone and had a severe headache from getting the crap beat out of him!!

I know...gotta be careful no matter what, but I'm a bit skeptical or maybe too careful.

I understand your need to be careful. No need to put yourself at risk.

What you could do is meet the guy in a public place - like a coffee house or restaurant. You ask a trusted friend to sit at a table near you when he or she can see whomever you contacted. And you let the person know you have a friend nearby and there will be no action the first time you meet. If you get any bad vibes, just leave the place and go home with your friend.

Next time you meet him, you let him know your friend will call you or stop by in an hour or two.

And learn how to defend yourself just in case he assaults you. Don't agree to go to his home - or your home. Don't give him any personal information about you.


But if you don't want to answer an ad, you have other options.

You could let close friends know you want to try a large cock, and ask if they have ever dated somebody they would recommend. If one of your friends says an ex-boyfriend is caring man and hung, but just not right for her or him, you could ask if he or she would mind you dating your friend's ex-boyfriend. A positive review from an ex-partner goes a long way because that folks know all the flaws and character strengths of ex-partners and they might have an intuitive understanding of which people might be good for an ex-partner even if they weren't.


Also, some people share their partners as long as it does not affect their own relationships. Both of my partners allow me to have sex with another if they both trusted that person.


You could search for LPSG members. The advanced search option lets you look for guys in Minnesota. Then you could check out their comments and see how they come respond to others here on LPSG. Are they considerate when they reply or inflammatory? Do they respond like morons or show some sensitivity and intelligence in their words? You can also check out their galleries if they have any pics. I've had two lurkers on LPSG local to the Bay Area contact me privately saying they wanted you know what.

 

[zany_girl]

Thanks quiteguy! Great suggestions.

 

[zany_girl]

I've noticed most do not indicate where they are from, so the search did not turn up much!

 

[B_quietguy]

I've noticed most do not indicate where they are from, so the search did not turn up much!

When I looked for LPSG men in Minnesota, I got 132 search results by using the advanced search feature. http://www.lpsg.org/memberlist.php?do=search
You'll likely want to winnow your search results down by orientation. I've got a hunch the gay guys won't show much interest in you.

Now if you want to find guys that post comments here so you can see how they well they treat people when responding online, you can search for men where their post counts are greater than or equal to 1. Now that narrows down your search results quite a bit.

I don't know where you live in Minnesota, but if you live near a state border, you could look for men in a neighboring state like Wisconsin.


And here I am helping some random hung bloke in Minnesota get laid.

Good luck!

 

[zany_girl]

quiteguy, I just blew you a BIG kiss - should reach CA shortly!! Thanks much!!

Oh, and you should change your name to nicguy!!

 

[B_quietguy]

quiteguy, I just blew you a BIG kiss - should reach CA shortly!! Thanks much!!

Oh, and you should change your name to nicguy!!

Thanks! The quiet guy returns your kiss! *smooch* :kiss: And a hug! :hug:

 

[Marlboro woman]

Zany, I think quietguy is absolutely correct, you should let your friends know you are looking for a big cock, you'll soon find out if any men in your circle of friends' aquaintance has a big one.

Which brings me on to another subject ... a friend of mine hired an escort once, she specified that she wanted an escort who was very well endowed, and they provided the goods for her :wink: I don't think I could go with an escort but my friend certainly got what she wanted !!

 

[pavement]

It's ok my sweet.
I'm not exactly inexperienced and I have never had a large penis in the flesh.
The largest being 5.5 by 4.
They are hard commodity to find.
You also might find yourself having to purchase larger toys after being on this site for a while to satisfy your curiosity (as I have).
There are lots of single well endowned men on this site.
Best of luck with the search,
and welcome to the site.
Hugs,
Dragonfly.

Well it makes a change from the typical here

 

[StudentofLife]

Actually, I have some female friends that use Adult friend finder and state in their profile what they are looking for etc. Also just viewing profiles for photos and what size they state and you could certainly go from there

I have a good friend who WAS in the same situation you are in Zany Girl and she has since been with two fellas that one would consider very large She loves the site and "So Far" has nothing to say bad about it as long as you can sniff out the liers...which seems fairly easy to do Have fun looking!!

Student

 

[got_lost]

WOW Zany girl!!!

Sounds like you have a plan here, and some great help too!!!

I wish yo uall the best and hope you post back with how things go!

I am in completely the same boat re never having been satisfied or seen/had a well endowed man.

I wish you all the best! :smile:

 

[Welshjames77]

No you haven't K8....but you came close

jx

 

[B_KOKOBWARE]

It's ok my sweet.
I'm not exactly inexperienced and I have never had a large penis in the flesh.
The largest being 5.5 by 4.
They are hard commodity to find.
You also might find yourself having to purchase larger toys after being on this site for a while to satisfy your curiosity (as I have).
There are lots of single well endowned men on this site.
Best of luck with the search,
and welcome to the site.
Hugs,
Dragonfly.

I know I can please you:smile:

 

[D_Odipherous Pitts]

Even if you had a well endowed man it wouldn't necessarily mean you would be more or less satisfied by one who wasn't as welll endowed... it also depends upon not only "how" they use their tools but also their approach. Seductively seducing a woman with your thick hard cock can be very much a turn on for a woman... taking it slow and making the whole experience something she will always remember is the key. Her pleasure first and letting her feel every inch of you slooowwwllly entering you... let her feel your veins throbbing in her wet hot pussy as you slowly enter her.. half way in, pull out again and let her beg for more.

It's not so much the size of the ship but the action of the waves that makes for an interesing journey.

nuff said...

 

[D_Percival Pohquer]

Yes, it's true. I've never been completely satisfied. And, that is what brings me here.


2) What if I were not able to take it all in...would the man be disappointed/frustrated?
3) How in the heck does one set out to find a well endowed man? I mean, I can't just ask a man if he is well endowed and if he wants to have sex with me just to see if he can satisfy me.

I've really been thinking about it a lot lately. Maybe not only because of what was mentioned above, but very possibly because I'm in my prime.

Silly? Maybe. However; I really want to experience.

First of all if you are not able to take it all in the man will not become disapointed or frustrated. I have always want to please the woman, so if it cant go all in i have to be more carefull. And its easy to find men on ehre with a large penis that want to have sex with you. Have you tried putting on a personal add? That might work. And if you ever come to Holland Pm me Good Luck!

 

[got_lost]

No you haven't K8....but you came close

jx

Close?

I do love the expression from Lethal Weapon (I think no. 2) - 'close is a lingerie shop without a front window'

close... you mean like within a few miles....


useful!

 

[Welshjames77]

You Know How Close.....you Would've Need Stitches

 

[Irish]

I've never had a well-endowed man. Don't know why not, just never happened. I've not been with many men, but the ones I have been with have been average at best.

That's what makes average average. It's the most common and most likely to be found.

1) The most obvious: Would sex be better/more satisfying with a larger penis?

YMMV, but some larger toys might help you figure this one out.

2) What if I were not able to take it all in...would the man be disappointed/frustrated?

Maybe a little bit, but I've gotten used to it and I'm "only" 8" long. I imagine most other men of substantial enough length to run into problems have adjusted over their sexual careers to essentially be "used to it."

3) How in the heck does one set out to find a well endowed man? I mean, I can't just ask a man if he is well endowed and if he wants to have sex with me just to see if he can satisfy me.

Honesty is the best policy. Most guys, or maybe I'm just a shameless horn dog, are a lot more willing to just admit that they want to get laid and will go home with you if you ask them. The hard part, really, would be getting an honest answer about their size, imo.