If any of you guys are thinking about a male BJ I say go for it. I did not have my first male BJ till I was 30 and Im sorry I waited so long.
Women are fun. They feel good, and they are fun to fuck. But out of the dozens of women I've been with, only two gave me head good enough to cum and none of them could deep throat. And a lot of times, they were doing to make me happy, or to use as leverage later. 70% of men can make me shoot from oral and 20% are experts.
My first male BJ came when a very good buddy of mine dropped some hints that he gave good head. I'd known him for years, and we went fishing and worked on each others cars and I always figured him for 100% straight but it turned out he wasn't. He was very unaggressive and it took several weeks to get me to try it. I never knew my cock could feel so damn good. He played me like a violin and I shot the deepest load of my life.
I think the difference is that men are cock hungry. After you drop a load, a lot of women seem relieved that it's over. I've had more than a few men take the load, and keep on sucking for more.
As for deep throating, I'm real girthy and the head is wide, so I've only been deepthroated once, by a guy that used to beg me to come over as often as I could... If you have never been deepthroated, you do not know what you're missing. Sure opened my eyes.
I prefer to do other bi men. I relate better to them. I find gay men can start looking for an emotional connection I can't offer. 80% of them understand, 20% make real pests of themselves. So choose wisely who will do the sucking.